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What if you woke up as a woman? (20)

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17 Feb 08, 3:03 PM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

ToakReon wrote:
Er, guys and girls ... don't you think we've had a sufficiency of "waking up as/with ......" threads?

Toak

It's not a compulsory thread Toak - feel free to ignore if you don't like it.

Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est.

17 Feb 08, 3:09 PM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

wonderer wrote:
What if you woke up as a woman?

If you're a sub man, would you be a sub woman? If you're Dom, would you be a Domme? Or something different?

Here's my thoughts posted as a slight tangent on another thread.

Wonderer wrote:
I think I'd like to be .... not a Domme exactly, but a flirt and tease - definitily into tease and denial. Maybe spoiled orgasms. I'd like to see men desiring me sexually and use that to control and wield power ... consensually of course . Though I think I'd be too kind (or is that too soft) to deny them altogether for a long time. I'd like to humiliate in public too. Show slightly too much of my cleavage in public to get them all hot under the collar. In fact almost exactly the sort of dynamic I fancy myself. I could be on giving or receving end of it, but only if the genders were right.

Bit sad to answer my own post, but on reflection, I think I might like to play around with my new found allure and tease a bit, but perhaps after a while my deeply seated subbiness would come through and I'd be a female sub. Ultimately I find my deepest satisfaction in giving pleasure or fulfillment or opportunities to others. (I do have a self indulgent side too, but my deepest feelings of salf actualisation come from serving others).

Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est.

17 Feb 08, 4:33 PM
hiatt1965
UK(BS), 5 yrs

More chance of getting a female sub but i would probably miss the morning glory

17 Feb 08, 4:40 PM
whisperkit
UK(NG), 5 yrs