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| 16 Feb 08, 8:50 AM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs |
Yeah, I had something like that once. Only useful if you can remain hard though. As you go soft the straps aren't enough to hold you in place, unless you are 8" when flaccid and even then you are more flexible and so probably still able to pull out. Maybe useful if yer on viagra, but then only for as long as it lasts. The Babylon project was our last best hope for peace. It failed. | |
| 16 Feb 08, 10:53 AM Snake_Hips UK, 4 yrs |
I think he needs to wear it more. After a month or two he will be putty in your hands. I recommend you take him out of it every fortnight or so and play with it but for heavens sake don't allow him to cum until he's been happy in it for at least a month with complaint.
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| 17 Feb 08, 12:44 AM Queen_Victoria UK(E), 5 yrs |
Thank you all for your responses. Very helpful indeed. V+a x | |
| 19 Feb 08, 6:24 AM gazbo UK(LS), 9 yrs |
i can vouch for this! i am now on day 15 of being locked in a cb3000 and last night was the first time that i have slept through, without being awakened at least once by a nocturnal erection; said attempts at erecting are the only really painful times as the flesh swells up against the ring and it does lead to some soreness and chaffing. But regular cleaning and, in my case, the liberal application of Sudocrem, means this has passed its peak and i see no reason why it could not now be left on indefinitely. Of course, he's going to moan and whinge to be let out, but it should and will become easier physically after a while. And as for the whingeing - you can always stop this by simply telling him that you will add time on for every whine!
I think Snake Hips just about has it right. From personal experience I can vouch for the fact that the idea is much sexier than the reality, hence the tendency to look for excuses (reasons?) to be let out. You do need to check that no real damage is happening but in general the "it hurts" is all a matter of getting used to it. If he can get into the chastity then it is not too small, it is just a case or erections making it painful. With time (about 2 weeks in my experience) the body starts get used to the fact that erections aren't such a good idea while you're locked up (but until then mornings can be killers!!!). Also in the initial stages it is probably a good idea to work up the length of time, e.g. 3 days in, 1 day out then 5 days in 1 day out etc. At the end of the day it really comes down to who is really in control. If this is some nice kinky play for him then you'll never keep him in any device for long. If this is for you then you just have to be determined (but sensible). [/quote]
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| 22 Feb 08, 5:55 PM SueMtv UK(NG), 7 yrs |
I have always fancied one of these..pricey and trip required .. maybe one day: http://www.latowski.de/latowski/chastity_belt.ht... sue
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| 25 Feb 08, 11:43 PM Madam_A 4 yrs |
In my experience if the cock fits in the CB3000 then the discomfort will simply be down to the cock fighting back! You must remember that all men have been subs to their cocks and one of the first things you must do as a Domme is to tame it. While some Dommes may like to introduce their submissives cocks to a chastity device; one day in one day out, 2 days in 2 days out etc etc etc. In my opinion this is a mistake, you are in charge and it must get the message from day one. In it goes, in it stays. All cocks can be tamed in 6 months and once you've tamed it your submissive will be so much more useful.
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