2 Jan 09, 12:24 PM roymondo UK(LN), 4 yrs  |
I would have thought that the problem might be more acute with AmDomme.
Certainly my first ProDomme had been Am first.
As a winkly I think I am less nervous than I would have been at half my age. Now, of course, I am all nerves when I meet a new Domme and still nervous when I meet my current Domme as she really gets to me on the phone. In session though . . . |
4 Jan 09, 11:13 AM Mistress_Sapphire_UK UK(NW), 10 yrs
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roymondo wrote:
I would have thought that the problem might be more acute with AmDomme.
Certainly my first ProDomme had been Am first.
As a winkly I think I am less nervous than I would have been at half my age. Now, of course, I am all nerves when I meet a new Domme and still nervous when I meet my current Domme as she really gets to me on the phone. In session though . . .
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Am I the only one that cannot make out what is being said in the first two sentences. I also think that to describe yourself as a wrinkly....you are putting yourself down.
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4 Jan 09, 11:17 AM roymondo UK(LN), 4 yrs  |
Mistress,
I am not really a wrinkly so I can say it with tongue in cheek.
My first ProDomme Mistress had been an Amateur, I guess no fee, for a number of years before becoming a ProDomme.
What I was suggesting was that someone who did not charge a fee would be more selective in whom she chose as a sub whereas a ProDomme is providing a service as well as enjoyment for herself. |
10 Jan 09, 11:50 PM sunnyplay4444 UK(M), 3 yrs 
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Well said,Original Rebel. |
11 Jan 09, 12:00 AM sunnyplay4444 UK(M), 3 yrs 
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I am 58, and by the look of some of bodys on show on this site that are 20 years younger. thay had better keep their other half out of my way. ITS A JOKE! Edited 11 Jan 09, 1:05 AM by sunnyplay4444
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11 Jan 09, 12:28 AM x_Rory_x 3 yrs |
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s
Hi,
Can you help? Any comments on the following?
I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather.
I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween.
Should I give up?
What do you think?
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Unfortunately even most older Dommes prefer guys 10 to 15 years younger than themselves even though some of these Dommes are nothing to look at themselves.It doesnt matter if your better looking or fitter than these younger guys.
A younger guy is a trophy and you are not,sorry mate.
The funny thing is most of these Dommes wouldn't stand a chance to get a guy alot younger than themselves in the real world,unless it was a guy looking for somewhere to live.
But on here these Dommes are a big fish in a small pond and can pick and choose, and some guys will just make do with them because they are desperate and want a Domme.
So dont get upset about the age thing mate,your just have to try and find a Domme thats about 80.
Goodluck.
Edited 11 Jan 09, 12:44 AM by x_Rory_x
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11 Jan 09, 12:20 PM twistedwimp UK(NE), 9 yrs
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Time_Lord wrote:
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s
Hi,
Can you help? Any comments on the following?
I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather.
I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween.
Should I give up?
What do you think?
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Unfortunately even most older Dommes prefer guys 10 to 15 years younger than themselves even though some of these Dommes are nothing to look at themselves.It doesnt matter if your better looking or fitter than these younger guys.
A younger guy is a trophy and you are not,sorry mate.
The funny thing is most of these Dommes wouldn't stand a chance to get a guy alot younger than themselves in the real world,unless it was a guy looking for somewhere to live.
But on here these Dommes are a big fish in a small pond and can pick and choose, and some guys will just make do with them because they are desperate and want a Domme.
So dont get upset about the age thing mate,your just have to try and find a Domme thats about 80.
Goodluck.
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Rubbish.
Look towards the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.
Edited 11 Jan 09, 12:21 PM by twistedwimp
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11 Jan 09, 2:28 PM MadamAlex UK(LS), 3 yrs £
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I have gentlemen well beyond their 60's visiting me.
Age is merely a number and if you still feel you want to indulge then please do persevere. There are a number of pro Dommes that would be delighted to see you.....just pick up the phone or e-mail them and you will be pleasantly surprised.
Just slightly off topic...and I may be missing the joke...but why does Time_Lord have a picture of Leo Sayer captioned Tom Baker ? Sadly I am old enough to have been a fan of both :D |
11 Jan 09, 3:10 PM x_Rory_x 3 yrs |
tubalcain wrote:
Time_Lord wrote:
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s
Hi,
Can you help? Any comments on the following?
I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather.
I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween.
Should I give up?
What do you think?
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Unfortunately even most older Dommes prefer guys 10 to 15 years younger than themselves even though some of these Dommes are nothing to look at themselves.It doesnt matter if your better looking or fitter than these younger guys.
A younger guy is a trophy and you are not,sorry mate.
The funny thing is most of these Dommes wouldn't stand a chance to get a guy alot younger than themselves in the real world,unless it was a guy looking for somewhere to live.
But on here these Dommes are a big fish in a small pond and can pick and choose, and some guys will just make do with them because they are desperate and want a Domme.
So dont get upset about the age thing mate,your just have to try and find a Domme thats about 80.
Goodluck.
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Rubbish.
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Ok i take that back i meant 70. |
11 Jan 09, 3:28 PM x_Rory_x 3 yrs |
MadamAlex wrote:
I have gentlemen well beyond their 60's visiting me.
Age is merely a number and if you still feel you want to indulge then please do persevere. There are a number of pro Dommes that would be delighted to see you.....just pick up the phone or e-mail them and you will be pleasantly surprised.
Just slightly off topic...and I may be missing the joke...but why does Time_Lord have a picture of Leo Sayer captioned Tom Baker ? Sadly I am old enough to have been a fan of both :D
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Yeah but this guy is paying you.
Ofcourse its alot easier for an older sub guy to find a young pro Domme that will accomodate him.
But if he's looking for a non pro Domme thats nearer his age to also have a vanilla relationship with its a different matter.
The odd Domme might be interested,but the majority prefer much younger guys,thats the way it is.
And who can blame these Dommes by the look at some of them i'd prefer much younger Dommes too.
So i suppose it can work both ways really.
Its ashame but
ive seen some of these older guys at munches and they do seem too have a hard time mixing in,quite often you see them pasing up and down and can look a bit dodgy like there looking for an opportunity too knock one out.
I do feel for the older sub guys.
Edited 11 Jan 09, 3:39 PM by x_Rory_x
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