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IC : Web boards : Pro-Mistresses etc : "over 60s"
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over 60s (68)

This post is on the Pro-Mistresses etc web board.

19 Oct 08, 1:04 PM
May_Thorn*
UK(BS), 4 yrs
£ Y!*
MistressGI wrote:
I have slaves in their late 60s as well as young uns. I also have clients who are in their 80s,as well as very young clients in their 20s with the occaisional just under 20, but then I'm no spring chicken Myself. so perhaps that encourages them to come to Me.

This is also my experience. Just keep trying, you will succeed.

If you're not living on the edge......I can help.

20 Oct 08, 9:10 AM
Mistress_Nemisis
UK(LS), 3 yrs
£
I have a number of subs in there 70s two of them take very heavy CBT sessions.
20 Oct 08, 9:21 AM
Miss_Katie_TV
UK(SL), 2 yrs
£
Unfortunately I don't think this an isolated incident, I have a number of clients both Dom. & Sub. who have told me the same story. Some ask when making an appointment if their age is a problem or even lie about their age, coming clean after the session sometimes admitting to being up to 12 years older, Age or disability (I have had a gentleman with an artificial leg) dose not have any bearing on having a good session, One Dom. Gent. Well into his late 60s can spank longer & harder than any of the younger ones, I hope any Mistresses or pro Subs reading this thread who are “ageist” will think again, there is enough discrimination in the world without adding to it. Katie
21 Oct 08, 8:16 PM
massado200
UK(LS), 6 yrs
Y!*
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s

Hi, Can you help? Any comments on the following? I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather. I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween. Should I give up? What do you think?

It's just you aint meet the right Tops yet. I'm nearly 75 and have more dominatrix friends than I can cater too. Also at my time of life the dangly bits don't work eather, but that drive is replaced with the addiction to BDSM. I'm doing C.P. films, attending private C.P.parties, and have regular session with a Pro Dominatrix. Don't give up because of a ageist Pro. Get out there to clubs, munches and meet as many people as you can, things will perk up.

22 Oct 08, 3:37 PM
Arctic_Swallow
UK, 2 yrs
Believe it or not there are Pro Dommes out there who prefer to see older clients. There are many reasons for this but I understand that one is definitely that the majority of men over 60 actually behave like gentlemen! Keep looking and you will find the right Mistress for you.
22 Oct 08, 3:52 PM
Ms_Tytania
UK(E), 4 yrs
Arctic_Swallow wrote:
the majority of men over 60 actually behave like gentlemen!

I session with adult men of all ages. I still haven't met one who didn't behave like a gentleman. Ok, I did once, and he was in his mid 50's. These horny young whippersnappers, eh? ;-)

I'm a Genuine Fake.

22 Oct 08, 4:30 PM
Miss_Katie_TV
UK(SL), 2 yrs
£
Arctic_Swallow wrote:
Believe it or not there are Pro Dommes out there who prefer to see older clients. There are many reasons for this but I understand that one is definitely that the majority of men over 60 actually behave like gentlemen!

That is so true, Katie

25 Oct 08, 10:12 AM
submissivebuffy
18 mths
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s

Hi, Can you help? Any comments on the following? I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather. I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween. Should I give up? What do you think?

we have clients of all ages at the manchester dungeon and would happy to cater for all your needs.. we also have a downstairs entrance for wheel chair users.. come along and see for yourself..xx

25 Oct 08, 11:45 AM
MsDarklove_Hurts*
UK(WF), 5 yrs
£ Y!*
First of all..good for you!

Anyone who displays a sexist, racist OR ageist atitude is not even worth spitting on in my opinion, so forget the ones who say they are not interested in you. EVERY age group has something to offer, especially if you happen to be female (yes, I know that sounds sexist, but I am being realistic), because there is a far higher ratio of blokes than women in the lifestyle. You being male means that you have to be that bit more competitive.

I myself have two regular clients well over 60, who have been coming to me a long time and they are both lovely! One of them is in his 70s, has some quite severe health problems but LOVES to play and scene and we have tremendous fun. I would NEVER EVER turn down a client because he is mature.

I also play at clubs and there is one well known and very popular bloke who is well into his 70s, fitter than me and gets topped so much he never sits down all night! Some of you will know T I am sure and love him as much as I do!

Why not start going to local munches and real life events and get to know people in your area? Most are very accepting, friendly and none judgemental and a great many would just jump at the chance to 'play' with an attractive mature bloke

If it is a one to one long term relationship you are seeking, these take time to form and develop as in ALL relationshipsbe they lifestyle or vanilla. If it.s a pro relationship you want, I am here and willing..as are all the Ladies who have posted in reply to your comments.

You go on from strength to strength! You have fun and stay safe! X

DarkLoveHurts

Edited 25 Oct 08, 11:57 AM by MsDarklove_Hurts

25 Oct 08, 11:33 PM
E_Beau1
UK(ME), 4 yrs

i'm so sorry to hear of your experience but i've not heard of this before.

i have had the honour to meet a lot of Dommes now and none discriminate on any sort of criteria (well except hygiene and manners). i'm not saying it doesn't happen as i'm sure that it sadly does, but, on the evidence that i have seen, age discrimination doesn't appear to be that common.

slave ian
podgy, useless, greedy slave - collared property of Mistress Absolute

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