over 60s (68)

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28 Jan 08, 7:50 AM
massado200
UK(LS), 6 yrs
Y!
rj4082 wrote:
over 60s
Hi, Can you help? Any comments on the following? I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather. I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween. Should I give up? What do you think?

I'm sorry you are having difficulties, but think you have just been unlucky in the choice of doms. I have just had my 74th birthday last year. I go almost weekly to my club and on Saturday night was at party where 4 females exhausted themselves flogging me, much to the entertainment of all the others present. So just keep looking, things will improve. P.S. My party was in Manchester, so there are the people in your area.

28 Jan 08, 4:58 PM
Delphian
2 yrs Do you do pensioners specials on a wednesday? My hair dresser does and im sure the cafe next door does too....

MistressGI wrote:
I have slaves in their late 60s as well as young uns. I also have clients who are in their 80s,as well as very young clients in their 20s with the occaisional just under 20, but then I'm no spring chicken Myself. so perhaps that encourages them to come to Me.

28 Jan 08, 5:48 PM
Toza_Scarlet
UK, 3 yrs
Of course you shouldn't give up. There are plenty of people over the age of 60 on the scene. Speaking personally, I would never choose a play partner according to age, that would just be daft. As one of the above posters has said, there are people in their sixties with far more go in them than a lot of thirty-somethings. It does sound like you have been unlucky. Just get out to munches and clubs and enjoy yourself. The rest should follow but it can take time to find the right Dom/me.

28 Jan 08, 6:25 PM
MLeigh
UK, 5 yrs
£ Y! I have a few clients well over the age of 60, and boy do I have fun with them
Leigh
I go to the Newport munch

28 Jan 08, 7:20 PM
Kinky_Coach
3 yrs There does seem to be a dearth of lifestyle over-60's (and over 50, too) dommes, though. Its a common question from clients, faced with the barrage of net happy youngsters.
Maybe this is why they're not well represented, they're just not cyber-happy. I know this doesn't apply to all: I get e-mails from my father-in-law, and hope he doesn't manage to find some of my more interesting web sites!! I keep looking for his IP adderss in the webstats, I've not spotted him yet
Louise
Life Coaching around fetish and submission www.mistressalpha.co.uk. Submissives with personal references www.slavebook.co.uk. Kinky Cottage, come for a fun filled weekend or a pre-club social www.kinkycottage.co.uk. Love life, live life, squeeze it 'till it hurts!!!

28 Jan 08, 10:13 PM
Tara_Red
UK(B), 3 yrs
£

rj4082 wrote:
I've tried in Burmingham
Try Ms Wynter's profile and Mistress Rouge for Birmingham, Wynter doesn't disciminate and I've heard good things about Mistress Rouge but still not managed to meet her!

28 Jan 08, 10:20 PM
Mistress_Hypatia
UK, 3 yrs
Not being a pro-domme myself, but I'm pretty sure some of the men I've played with have been over 60 - although, of course, I was brought up to know that it's not polite to ask a gentleman's age.
For me, it's more about personality than arithmetic (when it comes to play partners, that is; mathematics is very important in a lot of other ways, though).
A lady is never offensive... by accident.

29 Jan 08, 10:00 AM
chacane
UK(CF), 3 yrs
You are only as old as you feel. Some guys are decrepid at 50, whereas others are still active into their 90s. I suppose I fall somewhere in between - above the median. I only started to take part in BDSM in my late 60s and have loved every minute of it - perhaps because I was very fortunate to find a Mistress with whom I could very happily relate . I think it has given me a new lease of life and yes I do have fun - although perhaps not as much as Mistress does.
Go for it
"The roots may be bitter but the fruits are sweet"

29 Jan 08, 8:20 PM
MistressRouge
UK(B), 4 yrs
£
I am not ageist, and some of my more seasoned submissives/players are well into their 80's .
I do not recognize 60 as old to be honest, and most of my over 70's+ have walking/physical difficulties, and ailments that I am aware of, they still live to tell the tale lol.

30 Jan 08, 7:59 PM
maid_jane
UK(B), 4 yrs
Y!

Tara_Red wrote:

rj4082 wrote:
I've tried in Burmingham
Try Ms Wynter's profile and Mistress Rouge for Birmingham, Wynter doesn't disciminate and I've heard good things about Mistress Rouge but still not managed to meet her!

Mistress Rouge is excellent
There is no greater joy than to serve a beautiful woman.

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