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| Sun 27 Jan 08, 12:46 PM rj4082 UK(ST), 4 yrs |
Hi, Can you help? Any comments on the following? I'm afraid I am over 60 now but still enjoy bdsm. Unfortunately, I have had some poor experiences recently ranging from Doms not wanting to see me because of my age. Others have been quick and made it obvious they did not want me to be there. Presumably they don't get off themselves on men old enough to be their grandfather. I know I have difficulty in getting it up now but I still enjoy/need the pleasure and the pain. I've tried in Burmingham and Manchester and areas inbetween. Should I give up? What do you think? | |
| 27 Jan 08, 12:55 PM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £   |
Well I see several people over 60...I know many Dommes who do. One gentleman I knew, until he sadly left us, was sessioning into his 90's. Just keep trying and I'm sure you'll find someone to suit. | |
| 27 Jan 08, 1:12 PM ian_the_sub UK(B), 6 yrs |
I'm over 60 and I don't think I have any greater problem finding a Domme than anyone else. Obviously it would be easier if I were a young adonis, but that's life. It may be harder to make the initial contact if you are older, but the bdsm scene is very tolerant, and once you get known you seem to be accepted regardless of your age. I have met some lovely Dommes, who are quite happy to accept me for what I am. There is no greater joy than to serve a beautiful woman. Edited 27 Jan 08, 1:29 PM by ian_the_sub | |
| 27 Jan 08, 1:31 PM Lady_Anna_Bradford UK(BD), 5 yrs   |
I don't know any Dommes who won't see an older man. I'm puzzled and saddened by your experiences. I have a couple of regulars who are 60+ The past is a foreign country,
they do things differently there.
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| 27 Jan 08, 1:37 PM Original_Rebel UK(CT), 10 yrs |
I sorry to hear you are having problems  We will all be over 60 one day (if we live that long) and will still want to enjoy our lifestyle. Being young is all very well but it doesn't last.Her will be done | |
| 27 Jan 08, 2:25 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
I think your profile says you are 57! Ooops. Attitude, the glint in the eye, that matters more than the date on a birth certificate any day. I think that too! why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | |
| 27 Jan 08, 5:14 PM Suezeewong UK, 5 yrs £ |
Age has nothing to do with it - I have a sub who is retired and 68 - and he takes more during a session than most of my younger subs! When I have a session with him, I know it. It is all about attitude and not age.
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| 27 Jan 08, 5:42 PM Mistress_Sapphire_UK UK(NW), 10 yrs £ |
I am also sorry to hear of your experiences. I know there are some Pro Dommes that state on their sites they will not see anyone under a certain age but I have not come across the opposite. I think you have just been unlucky. Being a BDSM'er does not just dissapear when we get older, maybe we are sometimes restricted by health of what we are capable of because of age,but any good Pro Domme will work with your abilities. I would hardly think at 60 you should be calling it a day! It was also my pleasure to know the same man as Mistress Susannah......who was indeed sessioning into his 90's, and admitted that BDSM was what kept him young.
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| 27 Jan 08, 5:53 PM LacednLicked UK(WA), 4 yrs |
My gdad is in his 80's and works 3 days a week manual labour on a farm. I don't think he is into BDSM but if he was I am damn certain even at his stage in life he could take plenty! Its purely a state of mind. | |
| 27 Jan 08, 7:38 PM MistressGI UK(BH), 6 yrs £ |
I have slaves in their late 60s as well as young uns. I also have clients who are in their 80s,as well as very young clients in their 20s with the occaisional just under 20, but then I'm no spring chicken Myself. so perhaps that encourages them to come to Me. Lifes a Bitch....Isn't it fun | |
| 28 Jan 08, 7:50 AM massado200  UK(LS), 8 yrs |
I'm sorry you are having difficulties, but think you have just been unlucky in the choice of doms. I have just had my 74th birthday last year. I go almost weekly to my club and on Saturday night was at party where 4 females exhausted themselves flogging me, much to the entertainment of all the others present. So just keep looking, things will improve. P.S. My party was in Manchester, so there are the people in your area.
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