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IC : Weblogs : Crystal_Eyes : "Network Purge"
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Network Purge (17)

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Crystal_Eyes
Posted by Crystal_Eyes* on Wed 23 Jan 08, 9:41 PM

I just went through my network and realised how many were on there that i (for whatever reason) know absolutely nothing about, and seldom even speak to.

When people, especially newcomers, look at your network and recognise someone, they feel safer about that person. I'm not sure that's necessarily a good thing, in fact i'm fairly sure it's not, but regardless, it is how it works. And i'm not happy supporting this by networking with people that i don't really know that well.

I appreciate that everyone uses their network differently. For me, i want mine to be full of real life contacts that i know personally, or on-line people that i've been speaking to in depth and for considerably longer than a few days. Hence this purge.

If you're off, it's not because i hate you! It's just that it's my network, and recent events have caused me to put more emphasis on the relevance of networking than i had before. So basically, don't take offence... if we're no longer joined it's because i don't really know you. :)

Replies

23 Jan 08, 9:47 PM
velvet_minx*
UK(EH), 3 yrs
*waits to be culled*

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
apparently "I hate you, you sasanach bastards" is not a safeword...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0as2GKhmuA

23 Jan 08, 9:58 PM
fluffy_welsh_angel*
UK(DN), 2 yrs
*runs off to check*

"I don't go looking for trouble. Trouble usually finds me."

23 Jan 08, 10:04 PM
Crystal_Eyes*
UK(SA), 2 yrs
Shut up you daft cunts; you'll always be my friends. You know too much... :-D

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Um, i'm fresh out of advice... can i interest you in a sarcastic comment??
"Oh bother," said the borg. "We've assimilated Pooh..."

23 Jan 08, 10:06 PM
velvet_minx*
UK(EH), 3 yrs
:-D

And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
apparently "I hate you, you sasanach bastards" is not a safeword...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0as2GKhmuA

23 Jan 08, 10:07 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 19 mths

I am still there... dam that means i going to buy you a drink then :-D

Life is a biatch ... fuck her dont take her too seriously but love her with all your heart!
comments are always edited cause i is a typo princess innit though ... am i bothered :-D :-D :-D :-D

23 Jan 08, 10:08 PM
ThedaVamp
UK, 3 yrs
Interesting idea...

Can I keep the ones I haven't met yet, but fancy?

Please check your irony levels before attempting to respond to the majority of my posts.

23 Jan 08, 10:09 PM
Island_man*
UK, 2 yrs

*checks*

*smiles*

ask for your own limitations and, sure enough, they're yours

23 Jan 08, 10:10 PM
Crystal_Eyes*
UK(SA), 2 yrs
ThedaVamp wrote:
Can I keep the ones I haven't met yet, but fancy?

Depends... do they account for the majority of your network?? ;)

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Um, i'm fresh out of advice... can i interest you in a sarcastic comment??
"Oh bother," said the borg. "We've assimilated Pooh..."

23 Jan 08, 10:12 PM
ThedaVamp
UK, 3 yrs
Crystal_Eyes wrote:
ThedaVamp wrote:
Can I keep the ones I haven't met yet, but fancy?

Depends... do they account for the majority of your network?? ;)

Erm... ahhh... on-line ones possibly...must go check *runs off*

Please check your irony levels before attempting to respond to the majority of my posts.

23 Jan 08, 10:12 PM
Crystal_Eyes*
UK(SA), 2 yrs
*rolls eyes* Slut. :-D

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Um, i'm fresh out of advice... can i interest you in a sarcastic comment??
"Oh bother," said the borg. "We've assimilated Pooh..."

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