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| Mon 21 Jan 08, 10:46 AM new_bee UK(SA), 5 yrs   |
Hey all, just wandered if this problem was mine only, am I just too fussy. They say it is harder to find a Dom women than it is to find a sub man. I have trouble finding a decent sub man, someone that you know 'fits the bill.' is it just me or do other Dommes have the same problem? | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 10:54 AM TooKind UK(SA), 8 yrs |
I guess it is harder to find a sub female....but don't let that put you off.....a sub man can be really nice if you meet the right one!
The right submissive male can be a wonderful thing! C&J How right it feels, to do a little wrong! http://www.webspawner.com/users/swanseadaytimemu... | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 11:03 AM MissyG UK(MK), 8 yrs  |
I have found about 6 male subs in the last 15 years who 'fitted my bill'  depressing really.... -:|:- My Website -:|:- London Munch -:|:- LondonAlternativeMarket -:|:- | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 11:03 AM x_Lexie_x 6 yrs |
Swings and roundabouts.. I'm trying to find a decent Dom. Formerly GothikAngel | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 11:08 AM male2shemaid UK(SA), 4 yrs |
Well, your location is off-putting and I am only about 30 miles from you. Wales is a country where the men are men... and the women love them for it. Very traditional roles down here I am afraid. Also, and this is meant as advice and not personal criticism, your profile photo has 'Drunk!' as the label and that, for me personally, makes me think of a laddette and all the men I know, into BDSM or not, have no interest in such women. Finally, use of the phrase 'fits the bill' would indicate you are perhaps a tad chosey. Maybe you could be chosey in London but not in the back of beyond! Hope this helps you.
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| 21 Jan 08, 11:19 AM overlap UK(CF), 7 yrs |
... and the sheep are frightened. Now is it "a hard man is good to find" or the other way round?
Good sub men are like rubies. Reason is and ought to be the slave of the passions and can never pretend to any other office than to serve and obey them. | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 11:35 AM almostinnocent 4 yrs |
<Is not a Domme> BUT, having looked at your profile, I didn't manage to get any impression of you. Perhaps if you are actively looking for a sub, you would benefit if you expanded on your profile page- from a non biased perspective, your profile does not intrigue me to find out more about you, and I think thats key in receiving memo's from interested and potential submissives. Not sure if you are pro-active and message them rather that waiting for them to come to you, but could also be a good idea? Another picture wouldn't do any harm! Good Luck xx Wrong is definately right | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 11:40 AM Scorpionic UK(BN), 6 yrs   |
Ain't that the truth!!! "You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist!" ~ Nietzsche | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 12:09 PM masterofpuppets UK(MK), 5 yrs |
Let me guess - you make it clear what you are looking for and subs either promise the earth, before backsliding and slipping in all kinds of limits or excuses or they are totally vague and just keep telling you that they are sub and want to serve. I get it all the time but, occasionally, I do meet a guy who knows what he's getting into and delivers. Just be patient and keep looking. | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 12:17 PM Dorian8 UK(LE), 5 yrs |
I have always thought it was far easier to find a male dom or sub, than to find a female dom or sub because females appear to be more selective - on the whole. Whereas most males, once something clicks in their head they will go with any senario. Or am I wrong? | ||
| 21 Jan 08, 12:19 PM StrangeAngle UK(E), 4 yrs |
I hope that isn't ryhming slang for curry! lol
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