Posted by janiya
on Wed 2 Jan 08, 8:38 AM to janiya's blog.
... in a situation that is far from 'normal'.
Just managed to change the bedding and it's now in the washing machine... that was really difficult. Need to go to a bigger shop for some proper food shopping, but i don't really feel like it. Have tidied up a little bit as i will have a guest soon, but i still can not wash Thomas's coffee cup.
| 2 Jan 08, 8:42 AM Sweetiejar UK(S), 11 yrs  |
just take little steps and do what you can. There is no wrong or right way to be, only the way that gets you through the day. xxxxxxxxxx
Sweetiejar |
| 2 Jan 08, 9:00 AM Ms_Dior_Chance UK(CW), 9 yrs |
Biggest hugs x |
| 2 Jan 08, 9:38 AM caprycorn 8 yrs |
One step at a time, each when you feel ready is all you can do xxxx My imaginary friend thinks that you have a problem |
| 2 Jan 08, 9:50 AM MissyG UK(MK), 8 yrs  |
as everybody will tell you, theres no time limit, take every step you can til you reach the top  -:|:- My Website -:|:- London Munch -:|:- LondonAlternativeMarket -:|:- |
| 2 Jan 08, 12:34 PM ShadowRose UK(PO), 9 yrs |
Hugggs jane, we are in a very different situation from you but some things are the same. I know it's hard but following a routine does help. Dad had written out menus for the Xmas week and it may seem silly but we got some comfort from cooking the meals that he had decided on, just because there was some "normalcy" involved in so doing. I'm thinking of you. Rose Humanity is my interface with reality ~ Shiva AI |
| 2 Jan 08, 12:38 PM abby1983 UK(KA), 7 yrs |
Hugss xx |
| 2 Jan 08, 2:53 PM mollie UK(CR), 8 yrs |
That's not wrong. When I was in a similar situation my coucellor told me that the only thing she advised people not to do was move house, but that people generally did what was right for them. There are no absolutes. We live wiht what we cane face living with. I had to get rid of my husband's clothes. I couldn't face seeing them in the wardrobe, yest my fatgher in law kept his wife's coat hanging in the hall. Whatever you feel you can do is right. Nothing I can say will help, but all I will say is that it takes a lot longer than you think it will. My thoughts are with you. Mollie xx Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, "Where have I gone wrong?"/ Then a voice says to me, "This is going to take more than one night."" |
| 2 Jan 08, 7:11 PM subterranean UK, 8 yrs |
Jane your in our thoughts A |
| 2 Jan 08, 8:41 PM suzee 9 yrs |
Do things as and when you feel you can do them. Do them for you, not because you should or someone tells you that you ought. Only you know how you feel my friend. All we can do is wish we could take some of that pain from you and send you our love. xx If you know it in your heart, and feel it in your soul, then it is but a matter of time before you live it .......... |
