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I am addicted (88)

This post is on the D/s & M/s web board.

lulu_trixibelle wrote:

lucky_1 wrote:

Misanthrope wrote:
I might be a mentally unstable bitch but even I can tell ya 10-15 text messages a day to someone you live with is a bit on the desperate side.

That makes us desparate too then! capi, J and I sometimes exchange that amount of texts in a day, but then we are all fairly mobile in our jobs and it adds a level of security to our daily movements as well as just maintaining contact. What is so wrong with that? I guess it means that nearly three years in we must still be in lurrrve too. Damn but it is good.

I may be wrong but could just be dark humour not bitching ...

Praise jesus....someone with a sense of humour.

Oh and people being happy doesn't bother me at all. But sometimes being the jaded cunt I am I can't see past the my own experiences. I'm allowed to believe what I want and to voice it. Ya know people picking their noses in public makes me furious too....and I wouldn't want to read about it.

the wave of pain, the scent of you is bliss...

1 Jan 08, 5:05 PM
jakeskajira
US, 4 yrs

MsKitti wrote:
Well, my opinion on this will only be one of many, but I personally don't think there is anything wrong with the OPs message provided the criteria is to be happy in a functional medium to longterm relationship, which is great.

The only thing I feel lacking is stucture and discipline, I would not want to be called/texted that many times a day, because its very vanilla in my book, a bit like buying flowers and going out for dinner, which is PERFECTLY FINE, but certainly not a tie that binds in my case. So many text messages would also be a sign of insecurity for me, which is again fine, happens and acceptable but would be addressed in my case.

I am not clingy in a vanilla sense, and prefer people who are also independent and my perfect equal.

I would just like to add that I am not making a value judgement here, if it works for you and your partner, that's the only thing that matters in the end.

I guess I should add that Besides writing a morning email to him about the day before, I am required to email/text him while he's at work at a specific time every day... Im home alone out in the middle of no where, so there's various reason's for it, but yesterday it just hit me in a different way and made me feel all sappy... it wasn't just because I had too, I also wanted too. I suppose it could have just been female hormones making me go "oooooh" but... I just had a moment of total "wow, I love him so much, he's so awesome".

Honestly, I just made this thread because it is nice to hear other subs/slaves loving their Masters as much, when I posted it I was expecting to have other people post on how much they love their partners as well, not being bashed for my feelings towards my owner.

Regards, slave emma

1 Jan 08, 5:13 PM
caprycorn
8 yrs

Misanthrope wrote:

Praise jesus....someone with a sense of humour.

And if I had a penny for every time I'd heard that old chestnut of "I was only having a laugh" when called on shitty behaviour then I'd have ooo at least £1.50.

You don't like the tone of the OP, and want to get snippy about it, fine. So don't whine when people get snippy in turn because their sense of what is amusing is different from yours. I read the OP and did feel it was a tad OTT, but so what? I do wonder if there would have been quite the amount of arsiness towards this thread by some people if it had been a well known "name" who had posted it rather than an apparent newbie to IC. Somehow I doubt it and that's why it appears to me to carry an overtone of bullying rather than so called humour.

My imaginary friend thinks that you have a problem

1 Jan 08, 5:14 PM
siouxdoo
UK(ME), 4 yrs

Regards, slave emma

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i wouldnt worry about it - i get rushes like that - feeling Master is pleased or knowing how much He loves me makes me feel really happy. i do wonder though as you seem to post a hell of a lot - how does the slave thing work?! - seems to be quite a lightweight position lol.

Edited 1 Jan 08, 5:18 PM by siouxdoo

1 Jan 08, 5:15 PM
mq1965
UK(DA), 8 yrs

yoda_dog wrote:

nurseblade wrote:

Masterdxx_subj wrote:

nurseblade wrote:
Ic needs a vomiting emoticon.

jealousy gets you now where, I think it is sweet. Our 'one' is worth our devotion.

I'm hardly jealous, my D/s relationship is so great that I don't feel the need to start whining pathetically about it.

It's not whining! I adore my Dom! If I don't speak to him or text him every moment I can when we're apart, I get shaky, and start to feel ill. And if he doesn't reply immediately, I burst into tears, as I may have done something wrong.

I need his reasurance constantly, or I'm not complete. He's everything I could possibly want. He's the best Dom ever, and so much more of a man than any other I've ever met. Other Doms pale into insignifigance when graced by his naturally twue dominance.

His leather trousers and waist coat make me weak at the knees, just thinking about them, as does the swish of his flogger, hanging gently from his domly utility belt.

He's the bestest Dom ever!

You know I was about half way through your post and still taking it seriously and starting to get a bit worried that I had completely misread you as a person....then I got to the bit about leather trousers and wasitcoat....

On the thread as a whole I am with those who feel slightly vomitty at excessive romanticism, but also with those who feel that saying it out loud is not a particularly nice thing to do.

Sometimes when we are lonely, especially at this time of year, it can be difficult having others thrust their happiness down our throats (by the way I know this is not necessarily the reason for all the hostile posts) but nonetheless seeing someone who is happy, even if we are doubtful that it will last, should be a good thing, even if it does make us feel slightly nauseous.

1 Jan 08, 5:19 PM
elfling
6 yrs

jakeskajira wrote:

Regards, slave emma

Hun I hope you have a very long and happy relationship.

This place is filled with cunts, and I'm no exception. Good for you for saying whatever you feel. even if it does annoy the hell out of me for reasons I can't explain, I wish you all the best.

the wave of pain, the scent of you is bliss...

1 Jan 08, 5:20 PM
siouxdoo
UK(ME), 4 yrs

mq1965 wrote:

yoda_dog wrote:

nurseblade wrote:

Masterdxx_subj wrote:

nurseblade wrote:
Ic needs a vomiting emoticon.

jealousy gets you now where, I think it is sweet. Our 'one' is worth our devotion.

I'm hardly jealous, my D/s relationship is so great that I don't feel the need to start whining pathetically about it.

His leather trousers and waist coat make me weak at the knees, just thinking about them, as does the swish of his flogger, hanging gently from his domly utility belt.

He's the bestest Dom ever!

On the thread as a whole I am with those who feel slightly vomitty at excessive romanticism, but also with those who feel that saying it out loud is not a particularly nice thing to do.

i really loathe to say this (and im not good at reading into things sometimes) the word troll keeps coming into my head - am i being a cynic? - i really want to believe its not true

1 Jan 08, 5:26 PM
strictlynormal
UK(HD), 6 yrs

My 2p worth:

If I had to choose, I'd far rather be happy and want to tell the world about it, even if it were a tad OTT for some of us conservative Brits, than I'd wish to be bitter or cynical and feel the need to whinge about people who are happy.

jakeskajira, ignore the cynics and just enjoy being happy together

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Growing old is unavoidable but growing up is optional
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Edited 1 Jan 08, 5:27 PM by strictlynormal

1 Jan 08, 5:27 PM
Kitti_Whitaker
6 yrs

Well I guess we are talking about degrees here, if you want to send x number of messages and he wants to receive x number of messages, it's a done deal. We are all different. I need someone like me, or someone similar enough so they can be trained up.

Edited 1 Jan 08, 5:28 PM by Kitti_Whitaker

1 Jan 08, 5:27 PM
nurseblade
8 yrs

caprycorn wrote:
I do wonder if there would have been quite the amount of arsiness towards this thread by some people if it had been a well known "name" who had posted it rather than an apparent newbie to IC. Somehow I doubt it and that's why it appears to me to carry an overtone of bullying rather than so called humour.

I would have said posted exactly as I did regardless. Just ask JJJ, who is one of my good mates on this site. When she goes soppy over her Dom I often tell her she's making me want to vom. There might perhaps even be occasions when I go soppy too, I'm just a bit more private about it. Sometimes we need our mates to rip the piss a bit.

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