Subs - Does being a sub change how you argue with your dom? (93)

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20 Dec 07, 8:06 PM
jakeskajira
US, 2 yrs
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Masters_Delight wrote:
Subs - Do you argue as subs?
What i mean is, when your with your Dom/me and your having an argument do you back down because your the sub or do you argue your point? I dont mean argue in a D/s sense, i mean an everyday niggle /argument that is nothing to do with D/s. Does the fact that your a sub deter you from arguing?
I argue until my Master tells me to shut my mouth or he will shut it for me.... and there have been times where I was so heated I told him I didn't believe him....
Yeah, I am not only stubborn, but I am OCD, so I can't stop until I finish it. and I will wait patiently, hours, days, weeks to finish my sentence.
He usually allows me to finish, then tells me to shut the hell up. Or gives me a suitable punishment...
Master's big thing on it is "Not what you say, but HOW you say it".

20 Dec 07, 8:07 PM
jakeskajira
US, 2 yrs
Y!
lulu_trixibelle wrote:
if i know i am right and they DONT have a big stick... Hell yeah i argue
I've continued arguing and telling him to go fuck himself even when he HAD the big stick... it just made him hit me harder....... imagine that.

20 Dec 07, 8:19 PM
gipsydelight
UK(BS), 5 yrs

i used to argue but nowadays i back down.

20 Dec 07, 8:38 PM
Harrynflicks
UK(DA), 3 yrs

star_1 wrote:
I dont do the heated argument thing in any aspect of my life, but if I have a point to make, or debate, even with the Domly one, then I will have my say.
Agrees. I will only argue, disagree, debate, make my point on something that I consider important. For example which shoes I will wear...pmsl!!!
Seriously there are so many other ways of getting across your point of view or getting someone to do what you want -more subtle and a lot less harrowing.
For instance, whilst married, my husband and I at first used to disagree about how to get places. In the end I decided to let him have his own way. After a few extra long journeys as he got lost...haha.....from then on I always navigated - no arguments!!
****fugger, fuggger, fugger, fugger, fugger...right got that off my mind now....cheers to all****

20 Dec 07, 8:39 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 2 yrs

gipsydelight wrote:
i used to argue but nowadays i back down.
why have you changed
Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile!

20 Dec 07, 8:40 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 2 yrs

jakeskajira wrote:

lulu_trixibelle wrote:
if i know i am right and they DONT have a big stick... Hell yeah i argue
I've continued arguing and telling him to go fuck himself even when he HAD the big stick... it just made him hit me harder....... imagine that.
ohhhhh your one of those girls who likes getting hit arent you ... ya big perv !!!!!
Life is short! Break the rules! Forgive quickly! Kiss slowly! Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably, And never regret anything that made you smile!

20 Dec 07, 8:45 PM
stusub
UK, 8 yrs
No I don't argue in the tradition sense with my Owner. I'm allowed to make my point, but we dont argue as such, we never have really.

slave stu - serving the Princess since 2003

20 Dec 07, 8:53 PM
FluffySub
UK(NN), 4 yrs
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In almost 6 months we've never argued. We've had a few serious discussions but no rows. I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable arguing with Him.
I guess whether I would or not depends on the importance of the issue. I'd not argue about the lid of the toothpaste being off but if it was something I held strong beliefs about then maybe I would.
Proud to be His

20 Dec 07, 9:11 PM
princess_evil
UK(GL), 3 yrs
I like it when sub guys argue in normal situations, I find it shows that they'll take a more active and vocal role in play, after all, doormats just aren't as fun!

20 Dec 07, 10:06 PM
Masters_Delight
UK(WD), 2 yrs

helena_helena wrote:
No, I argue like a person. Funnily enough....
Maybe my question wasnt clear enough but im sure most people got the gist of it.

Submission isnt a gift...
..Its like respect, you have to earn it.

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