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After Market Fetish Party (38)

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6 Nov 07, 5:49 PM
John_Dietrich
UK, 2 yrs
This is definitely my lst post on the matter. Thank you for your comments on the club - the comments that I felt were constructive will be considered, the ones I felt were politically motivated, nonsensical or just not economically viable will be ignored. No doubt you will want the last word so I'll let you have it as this is getting rather boring!
12 Nov 07, 5:57 PM
Ice_Daemon
UK(TF), 2 yrs

John_Dietrich wrote:
the comments that I felt were constructive will be considered, the ones I felt were politically motivated, nonsensical or just not economically viable will be ignored.

The arrogance!!! I have attended 4 times this year & would agree with many of the negative comments expressed. However I fail to comprehend why you have no (or so it appears) intention of listening to the many similar views of people who have attended this event. All we are trying to do if to assist you in making this a great venue that we would look forward to attending. I know how difficult it is to get people to attend such venues so I would value their constructive criticisms and act where possible rather than react at a personal level.

Ade

13 Nov 07, 8:47 AM
hopespringseternal
2 yrs
MagicBuddha wrote:

slave_id wrote:

Club Severine is a very friendly club - no dungeon monitors are needed and every club has wanky men it just so happens Severine has fewer of them. I am a regular visitor to Club Severine, I never had my car interfered with or my girlfriend - much to her annoyance! You haven't made one valid criticism - if you are trying to make a career out of reviewing clubs it was hardly a fair or balanced critique - choose another career and let us real pervs get on with it.

No Dungeon Monitors needed? In a club setting I think they're essential.

You beat me to it (no pun intended!) i absolutely agree.

13 Nov 07, 9:06 AM
hopespringseternal
2 yrs
Ade_Licet wrote:
John_Dietrich wrote:
the comments that I felt were constructive will be considered, the ones I felt were politically motivated, nonsensical or just not economically viable will be ignored.

The arrogance!!! I have attended 4 times this year & would agree with many of the negative comments expressed. However I fail to comprehend why you have no (or so it appears) intention of listening to the many similar views of people who have attended this event. All we are trying to do if to assist you in making this a great venue that we would look forward to attending. I know how difficult it is to get people to attend such venues so I would value their constructive criticisms and act where possible rather than react at a personal level.

Ade

I've never been to this event before, and may still have been willing to go some time despite the negative comments made, in order to check it out for myself. John's attitude here though means that he has lost at least one couple before they've even been.

Different venues always appeal to different people; no club is ever going to be able to please all of the people all of the time. What i would expect though is for an organiser to be willing to listen and to make whatever adjustments are possible in order to please his paying customers.

John has made it very clear that his customers don't matter to him, and that feedback is not as important as his own ego.

14 Nov 07, 8:53 AM
Topthoughts
UK, 3 yrs
Y!*
iv been three times. i treat it as a place to go after the bbb instead of going home to be honest. i don't see it as a bdsm club like ceasers. there is many things i could find wrong with the place. and im sure i could with other events. but this club wasn't designed for bdsm play. yes the drinks are expensive and the lighting poor and the equipment sub standard. but its a pole dancing club. not a bdsm club. we all have choices if you like the place go enjoy. if you don't then don't go again. me il go if i want to, but it wont be to play.

daddy loves his lil girl

8 Dec 07, 5:52 PM
the_saranwrap_kid
UK, 15 mths

Last month we went to Severine yet again and although John has addressed many of the issues - eg being greeted and offered a tour, rearranging furniture and changing the smoking area so the one area does not get cold we were more disappointed than usual. I have liked Severine on the 2 previous months and was really ready to go and play - being fairly new to public play I don't mind a passing audience but am not up to the point of playing too publicly eg on the stage or anything.

We arrived around 7pm (later than we usually do). The one semi-private area near the fire door was taken up by a group of people who monopolised the area - and when they left they also left piles of glasses, bottles and other litter in the play area. We didn't feel able to go and play there while this group was there. After they left we did go and play but were followed immediately by the plain clothes perv brigade, and Chris gave up after 5-10 mins - complaining that we were not there to put on a show for them, and that they were putting him off (I was blindfolded so hadn't realised). BDSM in clubs may be deemed a spectator sport but i'd rather have like-minded people spectating/passing by than dirty old men just there to perv. I also asked Chris to stop at one point but he didn't hear me protesting over the music which was too loud for such a setting.

The couple we were with - who normally liked Severine - felt really out of place and uncomfortable. We eventually left early because we had had a phone call about the snow. Given that people often travel to such events maybe the DJ should have warned people the snow was getting really bad as if we had left even half an hour later we don't know if we'd have got home - and we live in Birmingham. God help those travelling further afield.

All in all I'm not sure if we'll go this month.

John has tried to take on board the comments made in this thread, but some things still need attending to....loud inappropriate music, and the club regulars/members who I'm not sure can be banned from such an event but who make us feel uncomfortable.

Es debilem vinculum, vale!

13 Apr 08, 8:26 PM
katlou
UK(SN), 9 mths

sounds like you had a awful night i shan't be going to that place

katlou xx

Edited 14 Apr 08, 1:19 AM by katlou

29 Aug 08, 11:46 PM
MissElle
UK(FY), 13 mths
Sounds truly awful..

guys attitude stinks...! totally anti...

and so, yet another couple will NOT be visiting!!!

 
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