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| Thu 11 Oct 07, 11:58 PM Scorpion_1925 UK(YO), 4 yrs   |
why is it so hard for an inexperienced male sub to find a domme to experience new things with? | |
| 12 Oct 07, 8:07 AM fussyone 9 yrs |
I think its your underpants that may put them off  lol...its not just subs of little experiance its all sub men. This is because there are not as many dommes as there are sub men. Best thing to do is make friends with people and as they get to know you they may want a little play. The worst thing you can do is add pressure.Good luck xxxx | |
| 12 Oct 07, 8:38 AM mroberts UK(EH), 6 yrs |
It's not hard at all, I only joined the scene 5 months ago and have met loads and loads of people and played with some of them. I notice this is your first post, it isnt a good first post and your profiles a bit thin. Saying that though, you will be given advice on this thread... I recommend you listen to it and as the usual will be, attend events etc (going by your real life network I assume you already attend some events) and see Doms (and everyone else for that matter) as people first, possible play partners second, relationship material last. Hope that helps! Michael | |
| 12 Oct 07, 8:41 AM nurseblade 8 yrs |
You've been on the site 3 months so even if you've only read half the posts from male subs asking this question, that should be about 5 or so. Your question is genuine, and doesn't seem like you are moaning but unfortunately because so many male subs do post moaning about this topic, you are likely to get lumped in with them.
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| 12 Oct 07, 1:48 PM ScarletPimpernel UK(HA), 7 yrs |
Because it takes time and getting to know someone/people before you jump in and experience these kind of things. (Learn to walk before you run) | |
| 12 Oct 07, 2:44 PM Deviant_Bitch UK(G), 6 yrs |
Its just simple maths... more subs than Dommes. It would seem that you have some friends work on that and just keep at it. Some Dommes like inexperience, a fresh canvas. I would say a bit more about your fetishes on you profile. Not too much that you sound wanky just a little so people can see if you have similar interests.
Wii's are like buses you wait months for one and then two come along. | |
| 12 Oct 07, 6:20 PM Scorpion_1925 UK(YO), 4 yrs |
thank you for all the advice, as someone rightly said i am not maoning i am just trying to find out the situation and get some advice. and i appreciate all the help i get. martyn | |
| 12 Oct 07, 6:23 PM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
* Maybe your approaching the wrong Dommes * Maybe yer wanna change yer pants in yer pic
I was gonna say coz their all arse holes but then i looked at yer pic
Just be patient im sure someone will be along very shortly to snap you right up.. Hey we gotta be exploited, yanno you wanna be exploited by somebody, by somebody, by somebodeeeeeeeeeeeee.... | |
| 12 Oct 07, 6:43 PM Mistress_B UK, 6 yrs |
Ignore the pants comments... I think they are cute! but then I like that type of print! I think your first post was very appropriate... you asked a valid question! I can't see anything wrong with your profile! you have been honest!!( well it seems that way to me but then I am a simple soul!!) Welcome to the world that is IC!!! "Dance as though no one is watching you, Love as though you have never been hurt before, Sing as though no one can hear you, Live as though heaven is on earth." | |
| 12 Oct 07, 6:45 PM Queenie_SB 6 yrs |
Is it? I don't have an aversion to inexperienced chaps,but I do have an aversion to chaps who make assumptions,scanty profiles & animal print underpants. Love is.....the feeling of Her waxing your balls. | |
| 13 Oct 07, 12:43 AM ken_knight 9 yrs |
Probally for the same reason that you've bought several lottery tickets and haven't won the jackpot yet.
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