Posted by toesuckasub
on Sat 8 Sep 07, 10:37 AM to toesuckasub's blog.
"What's all this?" she said, pointing to the screen at the title of the thread that said "threesomes - an urban myth?"
"Some of your interests..." she then said.
I mean, come on it's a fucking conversation online. Get out of the dark ages! People talk about sex ffs.
I knew my wife was vanilla. I knew she was christian. But it continually amazes me how victorian she can be in her attitudes about things sometimes.
| 8 Sep 07, 10:39 AM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs  |
Get her a Victorian maid's outfit then  Clicky here and SPONSOR ME PLEASE! | |
| 8 Sep 07, 11:09 AM Priapuss UK(PO), 4 yrs |
Orginal comments withdrawn in the light of a later posting. Today's the tomorrow you worried about yesterday. Edited 8 Sep 07, 8:36 PM by Priapuss | |
| 8 Sep 07, 11:17 AM breechesnboots 4 yrs |
Hey Come on!
That's your own wife you're talking about there. The one to whom you made some form of solumn promise. Regardless of any relationship issues there may be, a man should always protect his wife/partner/sub/slave whatever. Ok so she's vanilla and a christian, but that doesn't mean she should be the butt of your cynicism, especially in an open website. Just because she doesn't share your views and has, what you call, victorian attitudes doesn't make her an object to be held up for public scorn. On this site we preach respect of our diversity. We ashew sexism, kinkism, fatism, ageism etc etc etc but I have already found a lot of hypocracy sadly. Come on. Give your wife a break and give her the respect she deserves. I'm sure she doesn't post notices at church saying "My husband looks at kinky websites. Isn't he a filthy pervert." now does she. Breechesnboots: Quiet but Deadly! | |
| 8 Sep 07, 1:43 PM redcat 9 yrs |
this girls husband was 'ok' about her having a Dom.... he 'said' he didn't mind what she did.... and part of him meant it... part of him wanted this girl to do what she wanted so we could keep the relationship and family together. It wasn't what this girl was doing with her Dom that made him hate this girl. It was the way this girl was behaving. This girl couldn't see beyond the end of her own needs...she behaved like a spoilt teenager... and it was THAT rather than the kinky sex that ended our marriage. Maybe you need to look at how you are behaving before you continue criticise the way she is.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/objectification_in... | |
| 8 Sep 07, 4:56 PM toesuckasub UK(M), 5 yrs |
some people seem to be making a lot of assumptions about me. partly I thought her reaction was funny. partly I was surprised at her reacting that way to something I was reading, as if it's bad to read about certain things. partly I was surprised at that reaction from something relatively unshocking and common-place to my mind. partly I was randomly grumbling because it was morning and i hadn't been out of bed long. I think some people are taking this a little too seriously. it was largely a throw-away post anyway. I'm not that bothered about it. lighten up. ok, the 'victorian' comment was a little unfair of me. but she's not usually that square. I found it surprising and a little amusing. "I can't conceal the way I'm healed, the pleasure I feel when I have to deal with the mercy in you" Depeche Mode 'Mercy in you' |
