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| Wed 5 Sep 07, 11:39 PM tymenow UK(PO), 7 yrs |
Why do people waste my time and their own sending lots of messages, but with no real thought of meeting. Recently I have had two contacts who have approached me, sent lots of details about possible scenarios etc. but when it came to making actual arrangements, they both went cold, one actually deleted their profile! Whats the point? A simple "no but no thanks" is all that is required. | |
| 6 Sep 07, 10:14 PM Mistress_Hazel UK(CT), 9 yrs   |
i know the feeling,,,,many agree to meet up then,,,,,, all goes quite lol. take it all with a pinch of salt,, there are many genuine people out there,,,just hard to find then x | |
| 6 Sep 07, 11:31 PM Sviper_22 5 yrs |
Lol doesn't matter about Age/Role/Sex everyone has to deal with them but yes there soo anoying and whats the point of it all? X slave-boy X | |
| 7 Sep 07, 12:11 AM akakos UK, 11 yrs |
Maybe its not all one sided? Difficult to tell from what you say. | |
| 7 Sep 07, 12:31 AM Abaddon UK, 8 yrs |
hmmm difficult question whats your wifes opinion on timewasting ?
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| 7 Sep 07, 12:43 AM xailsax UK, 8 yrs |
ok there are loads of people who are shit but sometimes just sometimes people are really kind and thoughtful. Just tonight some random guy memo'd me to suggest a book i would love and guess what I am going to buy it. Maybe instead of moaning about the bad we could just promote the good. So to those of you who enjoy a happy ending I suggest freya north, every book of hers i have enjoyed and I want to share this. Ailsa | |
| 7 Sep 07, 7:29 AM ashleaoconner UK(WD), 5 yrs |
I know just how you feel. I have had loads of them. I agree it costs nothing just to say no thankyou.
It was not me it was Jason | |
| 7 Sep 07, 8:32 AM Peterboroughpair 6 yrs |
Sadly all cyberspace is full of TW's and wannabes. Just have to keep going and look upon these sad little men (in our case the majority, no all, have been men)as a learning experience. Even better are the ones that become abusive when you say no to them or even better still come back "well I wasn't interested in you anyway". We must stress though that we have have chatted to and met some really genuine people from here, some less nice, but where in life do you meet only nice peeps? | |
| 7 Sep 07, 9:09 AM hedonistah ES, 9 yrs |
No one owes you anything. Do you write back to every spam email you get? Until you've met and formed a relationship in real life, it's pixels on a screen. And I can see why you're so morally outraged by this lack of respect for another. Being such a paragon of virtue... ("/('o')/") | |
| 7 Sep 07, 9:14 AM Northern_Rough 4 yrs |
I disagree, all mine have been female.It doesn't cost anything to have manners or honesty! Why not say from the start that they are not interested in meeting and just want to chat instead of disappearing into cyber space. | |
| 7 Sep 07, 9:20 AM standonme 6 yrs |
That's why I try to build up a list of network users, anyone who doubts my genuine intentions is more than welcome to contact any of them.... I see them as sort of "references" like you'd need to give for employment xxxx |
