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| 6 Sep 07, 11:12 AM condemned UK(M), 11 yrs  |
Thank you fine Lady.Something about this story touches a chord in everybody i guess. Who hasn't at some point in their life been so in love with someone that they felt their whole life was over when the relationship ended? And then those dark lonely nights you cry and torment yourself with the 'What might have been....what still could be....if only....she/he would realise...listen...understand.' So...usually after a few drinks you hate your weakness but pick up the phone.Pour out your heart.Lose all respect and credibility.To think that she/he was lying there getting sexually aroused at your humiliation and very real emotional pain and anguish...as i said...fucking evil,lol!! | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 11:38 AM Miss_Despotic UK(M), 5 yrs     |
'fucking evil' Why thank you kind sir! Edited 7 Sep 07, 11:11 AM by Miss_Despotic | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 12:28 PM Supernanny 6 yrs |
I have made male subs cry, some just from the level of pain given and because it just hurt. Some have cried through sheer emotion but it's been the pain that has brought this to the fore. Is pain the switch to the tears or is pain the switch to the emotions which then cause the tears? Do you think it's females that are more likely to cry or is it pretty even?
Edited 6 Sep 07, 12:30 PM by Supernanny | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 12:36 PM lisal 9 yrs |
I am not into pain but have cried after intense D/s play. I think it's the release of emotion that starts me off
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| 6 Sep 07, 12:44 PM angeldustx 6 yrs |
something quite sexy about being made to cry..... not trusted anyone that much yet so a fantasy YET to be experienced  Shoes and fantasies are very alike. we try on both our shoes and fantasies. Both our shoes & our fantasies can take us somewhere new. Alan Moore | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 3:39 PM Devilboy UK, 4 yrs |
The girl that used to get off on making me cry never even had to hit me anyway, i was grieving and she was supporting me through it. She had a habit of getting me to talk about the situation and gettiing me to let it out, something i could never have done alone or with anybody else. It usually ened up with us getting intimate. I never felt that I/she took advantage of the scenario, but i guess i wont ever be sure about who was really in control. | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 3:49 PM littleonejust4you UK, 4 yrs |
i too have cried, sometimes from being really frightened abd in extreme pain and sometimes just from the sheer emotion after long, intense play. The latter is an amazing sensation and brought us even closer together. | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 4:00 PM MMs_lavenderblossom 8 yrs |
I also have never cried during a scene yet, no matter how intense the pain was and I have never really understood that because I am a very emotional person and can cry easily any other time. I do think it is the mindset that matters for me. I have found with my Master I am getting closer and closer to having that final release and last night during a long, hard spanking where a lot was concentrated on the top and inside of thighs I was on the brink of tears as it ended, so I am sure the day will come and I look forward to that because for me it is another part of submission and one that no other dom has reached with me. Vanilla sex is like a 99 ice cream... without the flake. | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 4:02 PM HisHoliness UK(KT), 6 yrs |
Yes it's weird this crying business. When i first came "onto the scene" (and what a linguistically vacuous phrase that is), i found that i cried a lot during 'play'. Whilst it was never caused merely by the pain alone, sometimes the pain would cause an intensely emotional state that eventually caused some sort of internal dam to burst. It rarely happens these days (and i'd be suspicious of anyone who had 'tears' as a goal). But there have definitely been times when i've craved that level of release. A few months ago a good friend of mine gave me an almost judicial caning, with a pre-arranged list of strokes. We had agreed that there would be no stopping once it had started, no safe-word. Whatever happened, she was to continue until it was finished. I wanted to go through the ordeal and come out of it on the other side. That caused a few tears and was a fabulous experience. Saint Severin, the benchmark by which purity, holiness & normality are measured. | ||
| 6 Sep 07, 6:21 PM Vega47 ZA, 7 yrs |
Although JCP may be my thing, pain does not induce tears, but I weep easily having little control of my emotions. I fear that the many good byes that I will have to say as I prepare to part with so many good friends, as I leave London, the place of my birth, for the last time this coming October, will cause them in floods. May I have the strength to keep them private. -) The truth will out |
