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| Curious_Sub |
on Mon 3 Sep 07, 9:48 AM to Curious_Sub's blog.
Humiliation if I'm being honest is something that I'm not comfortable with; I just take it too personally, out of context and blow it up out of all proportion.
My Mistress did suggest that perhaps I should take "Humiliation" of my profile but did say that it was an Honor that she had tried it on me, and you know what she's right.
So Humiliation will remain on my profile and I will consider it an honor when my wonderful Mistress Humiliates me again and in any case it's not up to me to choose what I wish to do or not do as the case me be.
Best Wishes
George (Curious_Sub)
| 3 Sep 07, 10:27 AM amarya UK(EH), 9 yrs |
this is something i think i have asked before... if someone enjoyed humiliation...would it truly be humiliation?? amarya xxx | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 10:32 AM Marmite UK(CB), 5 yrs |
The enjoyment doesn't come from the actual humiliation but how the humiliation is pleasing the Top/Dom/me.
We are proud of our partners when they do these things knowing they are doing it for us.
*must be in a dead soppy bloody mood today, gonna have to break out of it*
A rose by any other name has thorns that will still make you bleed. | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 10:44 AM amarya UK(EH), 9 yrs |
nothing wrong with soppy...grins amaryaxxx | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 10:47 AM RavenMuse 6 yrs |
At one point I had an issue with the whole label 'humiliation' because I'd only really seen it applied when some weak so-called Dominant was using it to undermine the confidence of a submissive to make them less able to question, easier for someone weak to control. Till someone pointed out much of what I did, methods I used quite the opposite, to help build a girl up, ALSO fell under the same label. If I take a shy girl, dress her sexily, leash her to My belt and 'show her off' in front of My friends and peers... she gets embarrassed and it is surely 'humiliation play' is it not?.... but would I show her off if I didn't think she was worth showing off? If I wasn't PROUD to Own her. Doesn't such play show that pride in a way that mere words never could? It is a tool, a toy, just like any other. A cane, knife, candle, etc CAN be used to harm.... if you get nervous when introduced to a new toy.... in what do you put your faith? What makes it less 'scary'? What gives you the strength to submit?....... your trust in the hand that wields the tool! your trust in your Mistress! you know She would never cause you harm, know She cares, shapes, molds and builds you up, helping you be STRONGER not weaker. Why would 'humiliation' be any different? It is another tool, another toy. One your Mistress handles just as adeptly as She does any other toy.... and you are just as safe. Even in this OP, you have realized the honour... the belief in you, the pleasure from you, the joy of Owning you that She has... and you see it is a good thing, a positive thing. The negative "Taking it personally" is internal, nerves, insecurity's... things you submit to Her in other ways already because you KNOW, in Her hands you are safe, if you stumble She will catch you. Edited 3 Sep 07, 10:49 AM by RavenMuse | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 11:06 AM Backdooruk UK(BA), 12 yrs |
For some people that's possibly so, other people enjoy the actual feeling of being humilated, just as they might enjoy the fear they get on a fairground ride. In both cases the emotion in question is real. The actual emotion of humilation is a big turn on for some submisives IME. - Chris
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| 3 Sep 07, 1:23 PM mollie UK(CR), 8 yrs |
George- remember me and ba ba blacksheep at the west kent munch. Humiliating but not terribly. Sometimes I lie awake at night, and I ask, "Where have I gone wrong?"/ Then a voice says to me, "This is going to take more than one night."" | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 4:23 PM Curious_Sub UK, 5 yrs |
Hi amarya, Thanks for your reply, thinking about your question I would have to say that no I don't think that it would truly be humiliation if someone enjoyed it. However, approaching humiliation as another way of pleasing your Mistress or Master (as mentioned below), well for me that would make things easier to handle. Best Wishes, George (Curious_Sub)
Edited 3 Sep 07, 4:24 PM by Curious_Sub | |||
| 3 Sep 07, 4:27 PM Curious_Sub UK, 5 yrs |
Hi MarinaPureAndSimple, Thanks for your reply and it really does make me see humililation in a new light. Best Wishes George (CUrious_Sub)
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| 3 Sep 07, 4:46 PM Curious_Sub UK, 5 yrs |
Hi RavenMuse, Thanks for your response and thank you for making things seem a lot clearer. I do have total trust in my Mistress and I know that I shall always be happy and safe in her hands, so I don't really know why I reacted so badly to humiliation. Thinking about it, I do believe that humiliation could actually make me stronger - I can still be quite shy on occasions. Best Wishes George (Curious_Sub)
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| 3 Sep 07, 5:10 PM Curious_Sub UK, 5 yrs |
Hi Backdooruk, Thanks for your reply and although I don't think that I'll ever be turned on by the emotion of humiliation (but who knows what the future brings) I do realize that it can be a turn on for many - for me humiliation will now be seen as something done for my own good and a way to please my Mistress. Best Wishes George (Curious_Sub)
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