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never apologise, never explain (4)

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Posted by Telesto on Tue 21 Aug 07, 6:37 PM to Telesto's blog.

i obviously don't know what happened - but in truth only two people do

(or do they? if something that seems to be going well suddenly falls apart, it can be shocking)

in truth i was sickened by the gleeful leaps on the wounded.

ic at it's best...

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21 Aug 07, 8:58 PM
Miss_Rose_4u
UK(ST), 6 yrs
Telesto wrote:
i obviously don't know what happened - but in truth only two people do

(or do they? if something that seems to be going well suddenly falls apart, it can be shocking)

in truth i was sickened by the gleeful leaps on the wounded.

ic at it's best...

if you are wrong why should you never apologise?

when i entered this lifestyle i was told as a dom/me you never apologise to a submissive/slave as this shows weakness,

what a load of bullshit i said after all we are all human and do get things wrong and i see it as a strengh not a weakness to hold your hands up and say to your sub or slave i got it wrong and im sorry for that.

Edited 21 Aug 07, 9:00 PM by Miss_Rose_4u

22 Aug 07, 7:09 AM
MasterG63
6 yrs
'Never Apoligise, Never explain' only works if you are an ignorant twat or suffering from 'Domanatrix Toxaemia'

I made some mistakes a while ago & really upset some close friends because I was being a twat!

I realised this and have apoligised to all the people concerned & there was only one person who wouldnt accept my apology.

I have to accept that is her choice & my loss

We are all human so we have the ability to make mistakes..

We also have the ability to learn & move on

Mind you, I do love 'Karma' - it works both ways! ;-)

"Life moves pretty fast! If you dont stop & look around once in a while you may miss it!"
Matthew Broderick - Ferris Buellers Day Off

22 Aug 07, 8:31 AM
Telesto
UK, 8 yrs
oh i believe in open and honest communication in relationships...

so if i wrong someone i will (mostly!!!!) fess up.

just won't necessarily tell the world about it

22 Aug 07, 6:54 PM
chartreuse
UK(BA), 6 yrs

No-one knows what goes on behind closed doors... apologies can be made but if a person refuses to accept them there is little one can do.

C x :)

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