Abuse and bein abused (21)

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MistressW
Posted by MistressW on Mon 30 Jul 07, 12:16 AM

Well having been in a vanilla relationship since december last year and thinking that I had found the man for me how wrong can I be

We who are into bdsm which is a whole meaning of words everything is consensual.

But I have now finished with my fiance as he began abusing me first with words now with his fists and friday with his hands round my neck I truely know the meaning of breath play

So be warned if someone who says they love you but can hurt you physically get out while the going is good.

I am now not looking for a relationship but a friend who is into the scene

and I'm back

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30 Jul 07, 12:19 AM
Marmite
UK(CB), 2 yrs
Y!
Welcome back into the CONSENTUAL world (mainly) that is BDSM.
Sorry it didn't work out, but by the sounds of it you're best out of that scary place anyhow.
x
A rose by any other name has thorns that will still make you bleed.
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30 Jul 07, 12:25 AM
temperance
UK, 2 yrs

Im so sorry this has ended out in this way.... im glad you had the strength to get out.... also, very glad to see you back here.... time is a great healer xx
Its not me talking.. its the wine!!

30 Jul 07, 12:32 AM
BarbieSlutLoki
UK, 3 yrs

Sad to hear that, you sounded so happy last year as well (:

The first rule of Brat Club, we don't talk about Brat Club... Bovvered, hands, face, bovvered...but am I bovvered.
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30 Jul 07, 12:32 AM
Miss_Simone_I
UK(CB), 2 yrs
Y!
I am so sorry to hear this hun.
I see you as a good friend and if you ever need anyone to talk to or to come over and see you know where I am.
Gentle caring hugs
Simone xxx
** Carpe Diem **
http://www.simone.wingsofspirit.co.uk

30 Jul 07, 12:33 AM
slave4ever
23 mths
Yup for sure there is one thing having a Master in the scene but maybe that same Master - when you choose to look again - should be a switch in vanilla... I find myself in that sort of feeling in the last few days too for a Mistress.
These doms/dommes need to learn that they are actually the sub and we - the subs/slaves are the true masters and mistresses of the scene! They do only as far as we allow them to therefore they are here for us!

30 Jul 07, 12:45 AM
MostlyHarmlessParty
UK(AL), 20 mths

My ex tried to attack me yesterday but fell into the river. She claimed to be stuck, drowning and to need saving but I've never seen anyone drown in ankle deep water. I left her and her pitiful screams well behind.
She followed me to the pub, playing the damsel in distress, with two male interlopers looking for a fight.
From there she followed me to the police station. I nearly ended up in a fight with some other random passerby outside the police station.
The police went out and she had left when I departed a few minutes later. The police did nothing.
She fractured one of my teeth while I was sleeping (I think). Had to have that taken out the other week. Violence follows her everywhere.
I gave her so many chances before I left. She follows me everywhere I go, stalks my favorite pub (I've been banned from another two for telling her to f-off), stalks my favorite bit of river and continually pesters me in general.
All the women in the street hate her because she upsets their little kids - a posse of three of these women came after her last time she turned up. They've started saying hello to me now, after years of me living here, which is nice.
And, of course, she loves me, or so she says. She is going off her nut - she spends all her time attacking me pretty much which doesn't make for a good lifestyle. Last time I went round there all she had in her cupboard was remnants of a food shop I did months before.
Fortunately now I've got a disabled bus pass - I'm on my third, she steals these and my keys to keep me hostage. Thank God I got my eyesight back or I might have been stuck with her for life. She's a skank. She was useful while I was blind, but attacked me even then, now she is totally useless. The sex was good but the taxes are too high for the roads.
Edited 30 Jul 07, 12:55 AM by MostlyHarmlessParty

30 Jul 07, 12:45 AM
MistressW
UK, 2 yrs

he wasnt into the scene and wasnt a sub purely vanilla
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30 Jul 07, 12:48 AM
slave4ever
23 mths
Oh yeah, I forgot because someone is purely vanilla means you can start beating them up... hmm!

30 Jul 07, 12:53 AM
slave4ever
23 mths

slave4ever wrote:
Oh yeah, I forgot because someone is purely vanilla means you can start beating them up... hmm!
Or is that meant to be the other way around?

30 Jul 07, 12:57 AM
captain_hook
IE, 19 mths
seems to me that some of the people who talk up ssc are actually the abusers but then I think thats the same in every kind of lifestyle.
Also a pair of tits is a good place for a male abuser to hide behind

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