Posted by mazzie_RB on Sun 29 Jul 07, 3:59 PM to mazzie_RB's blog.
No i'm not talking about Dicks!! 
How long do you think you should live with someone before marriage?? The professional opinions seems to be one year.
I made a big mistake in my first marriage, we didnt live together before marrying needless to say 4 months after we married he showed his true colours ( which were rather nasty in a physical sense)
My mate has announced he is getting married in a couple of months and moving in at the same time! I am just being cynical, or is he really fucking mad!!
Its one thing to have a great relationship, love etc...but so,so,sooooooooooo, different actually living together.
| 29 Jul 07, 4:23 PM NilSatisNisiOptimum UK, 6 yrs  |
Mazie you have to go with your instincts.Long romances or short intense relationships can both work ,but you have to be sure within your own mind whatever the final outcome maybe. | ||||
| 29 Jul 07, 4:27 PM mazzie_RB UK, 7 yrs |
I'm sure about mine babe, we've been living together for 4 months now, i wouldnt marry till we had had a good taster I do though worry about him, whats the rush to get wed almost the same week as moving in FFS.
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| 29 Jul 07, 4:31 PM unusual_suspects 4 yrs |
I am sure they know deep down if its right, some do and some don't I wouldn't rush into anything myself, but thats my opinion | ||||
| 29 Jul 07, 4:33 PM mazzie_RB UK, 7 yrs |
Thats what i think...there arent any babies on the way ( as far as i know) ...or maybe there is , lol.
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| 29 Jul 07, 4:37 PM unusual_suspects 4 yrs |
Damn I know a few
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| 29 Jul 07, 4:38 PM mazzie_RB UK, 7 yrs |
I probably know more! We can talk about dicks if you like though....Big small, grower or shower as Damien would say! lol
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| 29 Jul 07, 4:40 PM unusual_suspects 4 yrs |
I bet we know the same ones LOLOLOLOL
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| 29 Jul 07, 4:42 PM mazzie_RB UK, 7 yrs |
Do you think so?? Mind you, this is a small place, kinda hard to miss them eh. http://www.lightamillioncandles.com/ | ||||
| 29 Jul 07, 4:49 PM teach_me UK(OL), 6 yrs  |
my parents knew each other 6 weeks before they started arranging their wedding ....... married after 3 months ......... moved in together (before that they both lived with parents) this April was their 49th wedding anniversary anything can work if you want it, and work hard enough at it Wouldn't it be smart to make the sticky stuff on envelopes taste like chocolate? | ||||
| 29 Jul 07, 4:54 PM mazzie_RB UK, 7 yrs |
Awww, thats lovely!! And your right, things can work if you work hard enough at it. Just too easy( and too acceptable) to get divorced these days, i think people do walk away rather than try to make it work. I have a gay mate who moved country to be with his b/f after knowing him just a couple of months....and they are still together 4 years on. Unfortunately i know a lot more who have done a lot less drastic and in 6 months its over. Hey ho
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