Capital D and S not lowercase d and s (84)

I recently started to search for a submissive. In doing so I read the M4f adverts to get a feel for my own advert. I was amazed and shocked at the so called 'doms/masters' attempts in trying to hoodwink unknowing and newbie subs/slaves. It brings the BDSM lifestyle into disrepute which we must all abhor as it reflects on us directly. I realise that any or Dom has to learn and build experience and expertise. But I do strongly object to these puppies who use words they do not understand or cannot perform the tasks associated with them. In one in particular the puppy said he wished to train her and learn as this happen. But he used a word 'kajira' which he obviously knew nothing about. Otherwise he would have not used it in his title and then added he was willing to train and learn as he progressed! In addition others use words which they know nothing about yet give an impression of being competant. i refer to the words Japanese Rope Work, Shibaru or even karada. I trained in Japan for 3 years in Japanese Erotic Art. I was instructed that the techniques were part of the Samurai training of prisoner interrogation. This was to restrain any particular limb or organ. This was taken up ultimately by a Japanese cameraman who saw the possibilities of erotic photography using bondage. After my 3 years training I am considered competant. If I spent another 7 years I would be regarded as a Master. Can the site administrators, who must surely vet the profiles placed here, take action to prevent what I consider abuse. Abuse in using terminology to provide a facade and respectability of knowledge and experience they obviously do not have. Abuse of suspecting newbies to be hoodwinked into masters and doms who do not have a clue what they are doing. Abuse of the lifestyle which they say they represent. A real Dominant or Master with the knowledge and experience should like me be appalled at this. Housemaster96

If I am reading correctly he is merely objecting to Doms on here implying that they have a specialist knowledge and training in certain arts, that they really may not have, and is concerned that subs may put misplaced trust in them.

What's wrong with expressing that concern?

I don't however feel it's up to the moderators to vet profiles and check credentials, it is up to us subs to do that for ourselves.

But you could have gone easy on the guy.

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