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| Mon 9 Jul 07, 4:18 PM Julissa_Pequenita UK, 5 yrs  |
As a TV girl, who doesn't always have the time or inclination to wear full make up and wig - to try and pass as a woman in public, how far should I dare to dress in borderline women's clothes? For example, non-sparkly tops and jeans/other trousers & women's jacket/unisex coat. And how about 2' heel boots (without stilleto or kitten heel of course). Underneath I would wear full female underwear, perhaps with a corset, hip pads and breast forms to give me a decent shape. Only problem is that I will have to wait until the autumn (or colder weather), as I would have to wear a baggy jumper or loose fitting coat to hide my breasts. Has anyone gone out in public as a man, but wearing a skirt, heels etc? You know like Eddie Izzard is supposed to do - because he wants total clothes freedom. If so, have you been ignored, ridiculed, attacked, arrested. I guess that in the winter, it's possible to wear a long mac and no one would know if you had a skirt or trousers or were naked underneath. On second thoughts, perhaps I should keep my cross dressing to when I'm wearing make up and wig, as well as at home and in clubs. It's just so frustrating the real girls can go out wearing men's shirts, jackets and trousers - with hobnail boots - and no one will bat an eyelid. I've heard of one TV sub, who is only allowed to go out by her Master when she is wearing clothes with women's labels on. So she must show her master the labels (eg to prove the jeans are not male ones) before she is given permission to go. She is lucky enough to be a full time domestic servant/wife, so obviously she doesn't have to go to the office androgynously every day - just to the supermarket and other shops. The reason I'm toying with the idea of going public as androdgynous is to measure other people's reaction, hopefully people in London, where I live, have seen everything. I wouldn't mind if I was laughed at by some teenage girls, but I don't want to get beaten up or arrested. Perhaps I should wear a kilt? I just want to feel more comfortable and a peace, which I am when dressed en femme. I would be very interested to hear your feedback, suggestions, and your own experience of being yourself in public. |
| 9 Jul 07, 9:27 PM sissyinhose UK(RG), 5 yrs  |
This is a subject of which I actually have some real life experience (most subjects on these boards are about activities that I doubt I will ever have the chance to partake in). However, I suspect it's for slightly different reasons than simply wanting to go out and be comfortable as myself. I have been out in public in androgynous attire on quite a few occasions, sometimes much more feminine than others - but still obviously as a man. This has always been under circumstances when I've been submissive and craving humiliation, rather than just been trying to be androgynous because I feel comfortable that way. I'd much rather go out fully en-femme when I'm being non-subbie. However, when i've been in more of a sissy mode I've absolutely adored being sent out in a partially feminine/androgynous state. Examples would be wearing women's jeans and 4" heeled boots, but a man's top (I think I had some mascara on too). Or wearing obvious tights under shorts, either with men's shoes or women's sandals. I've done both of these things while walking around shopping centres which were sometimes fairly busy. Other times I have worn bra+breast forms under a tight men's t-shirt. Pretty much all of these occasions I've been fulfilling orders to carry out errands and tasks for Dommes I am proud to have known online who loved to send me out and hear back about what I had done and how I had felt. Most of the times I've been out have actually passed pretty uneventfully. Although I always feel like pretty much everyone I go within 50 yards of is staring at me, in truth I think most people just go about their business and don't notice anything. People I actually interact with are different of course - some smile knowingly, others scowl (I remember some very cross looks when I wore my stuffed bra in an old fashioned independent lingerie shops) and occasionally people have told me they thought i was brave, or offered sympathy when I have explained I've been sent out by my Mistress. The only time I've been out in a skirt was an errand i was sent on to try on some lingerie in an Ann Summer's style store when I lived in the US - and then I had to walk out wearing a tiny black lycra mini skirt, black stockings and heels. I got more than a few looks in the shop - and was a bit worried about people driving past the car park where I had parked far away on the other side, but the place was pretty deserted and I felt fairly safe (if embarassed) and loved the feel of the cool breeze on my hosiery clad legs. All in all I have enjoyed it - it's been fun - humiliating, excruciatingly so at times, but I have loved it. However, I've usually not been very over the top, and have always done it in fairly safe places where I couldn't imagine anyone trying anything violent. A darker, quiet street late at night might be a different story and something I think I'd avoid...
All I can suggest is that you try it. Start small, with something simple and subtle and build up your confidence as you see how people react. Better yet, find someone who'll tell you what to wear (Oh wait, that's MY fantasy, not yours...) sissy xxx |
| 9 Jul 07, 10:10 PM stevielouts UK(HD), 9 yrs |
I've quite often gone out wearing breast forms, though usually under a coat I have to say. The only thing being that I'm not so flat chested naturally nowadays, so they do show through to some extent when I'm padded up as well. Again have worn female tops out under a coat, and have at least 1 pair of trousers that are female, though being leather they dont get worn out on the street all that often! And I buy girly clothes all the time without a blink of the eye! happy volunteer for mind control and robotisation experiments |
