Posted by kittymcr on Fri 26 Mar 04, 1:17 AM to kittymcr's blog.
After a few discussions over the last few days i thought i'd write a quick blog about is subject...
I have personally been in a relatsionship where i gave my consent to not having consent..it takes such a lot of trust and courage to do so.
If this happens does it mean your a 'slave' then?
And is there a line that really shouldnt be crossed?
For example...if i hate cutting (which i dont!
) and
i had a Dom whos relationship with me one where i had
no safe word etc...and one day he decided he would cut
me. does he have that right knowing i hate it? Or is
that abusive?
Can you really say..ok...well...i am giving up any consent i have to you...i totally trust you with my mind, body and soul..only to later say..well actually you cant do this, that or the other. Surely that defeats the object of giving up your consent and you may aswell keep your safewords and limits!
Is this state of a relationship something that we all strive for??
I can hear ppl saying..well...if you trust the Dom..then thats your choice..and you should know the Dom well before doing so! And..the Dom is there to push you!
Well...who says a subbie should be pushed? What if they're happy wehere they are?
hehehe
k
Edited Fri 26 Mar 04, 2:02 PM by kittymcr
