Posted by kittymcr on Sat 20 Mar 04, 3:46 PM to kittymcr's blog.
I once wrote a post on Lifestyle Uk's board about 'where hav all the young Doms gone?' I wrote this on 15th January 2003....
Hiya, Just a little thought..but where have all the good single Doms gone? I was speaking with someone from the States today and they couldnt help but notice that every sub they spoke to was from the UK. Are good Doms (and with that title I include Dommes) becomming extinct? Why is it so ahrd to meet someone decent? And, speaking as a youngster(just to rub it in i am 21 still!) there are practically ZERO Doms lets say 30/35 and younger.
K x
Well...over a year on ad its seems things are stil the same! Im now nearly 23, i have joined a new group for under 35's..i do try to be pro-active! Yet all the people i speak with are over 40!
Maybe they look upon me as being too young, i can only say that i am thankful for realising my submissive nature at a young age (i was 19 wehn i knew)
I've had a few BDSM relationships...all were quite vastly different and for that i'm thankful. They have given me lots of experience and help along the way in finding out what kind of relationship i would like (in an ideal world of course)
My point is...who are we to say what other people like or what they are is wrong? If we go round shunning people or their preferences then we are just being closed minded..and i actually thought (what a mistake) that this scene would be one of the most open minded places!
We should accept each other's likes/dislikes/preferences. And if you dont agree... dont put them down! Just grow up..and keep on looking for what your heart desires!
k
Edited Sat 20 Mar 04, 4:07 PM by kittymcr
