Going Down (91)

Recently I heard about another dom bloke with this point of view.

How many male doms out there think that performing cunnilingus on their female subs is "undomly" and refuse to do it?

Why would it be considered "undomly"?

FIFE & TAYSIDE MUNCH
"A genuine passion is like a mountain stream; it admits of no impediment; it cannot go backward; it must go forward." - Christian Nestell Bovee

As a Domme I demand it.

As a sub... knowing that my Dom wants to eat me, lick me, taste me, tease me, make me squirm, moan, groan and cum for him.... Wow, that's all I can say!!

C x

Is glas iad na cnoic i bhfad uainn.
"Far away hills are always greener".
"Let our bodies be twisted but never our minds." Is this love? - Alison Moyet

Because the pleasure is being given by the man, to the woman, for the sake of the woman's pleasure. To many Doms (and female subs of my acquaintance) such activities are undomly.

But what if the Dom really enjoys doing it? Surely the sub shouldn't deny him his pleasure?

Another scenario: If a sub claims to dislike it - is it punishment to go down on her? It could be reverse psychology and she really loves it and is effectively topping from the bottom!

It's a minefield!

In my book and view, I see it as more of a reward to the subbie for well behaving than a form of undomly action. To me it's a natural thing for me to be doing during most play sessions. Going down on a subbie should be about enjoying the moment and play rather than seeing it as a 'who's not Dom enough to not be doing that.' I suppose it's all down to who needs pleasing the most, the Dom or the sub. In most cases it's the Dom who want's all and not give all, hence the view of not wanting to do so called 'undomly things' even if it feels strange for the Dom to even think of pleasing his partner in the way they need it as well as him knowing what he thinks should please them.

It's sort of the Bull and the cow story, the bull thinking he knows what makes the cow tick but the cow knowing what she wants more better.

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Anybody can be fabulous. You got a hump on your back? Put some glitter on it and have a party.

And once he was called undomly, would he be forever doomed to wander the corridors of darkened clubs, having people point at him and sayin "There be one of The Undomly Ones, forever Doomed to Wander the Corridors of these rather dimly lit places."

The domly ones, that is to say the twoo doms, would halt briefly, cast a half-nod of pity to this poor dejected soul, and carry on with their twoo subs in that nirvana that is the right of the "I'm Doing It Allrightiously Tonight."

I feel like a pig shat in my head.

Not being a domme, I cannot answer from that point of view, but as a sub .... if Sir wishes to, why on earth would I want to stop him? He enjoys it, I enjoy it, we all get pleasure from it .

It may be the sub's place to please her/his Dom/me, but who says a sub cannot get pleasure too ... ?

I am his, her's and Sir's

Indeed, why not video yourself doing so and post the video on here for us to have a look at?

Anybody can be fabulous. You got a hump on your back? Put some glitter on it and have a party.

I would love to know the answer to that

I suspect it's something they may have picked up in the internet chatrooms where all the twoo doms hang out.

One - definately not, the other perhaps.

FIFE & TAYSIDE MUNCH
"A genuine passion is like a mountain stream; it admits of no impediment; it cannot go backward; it must go forward." - Christian Nestell Bovee