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RE: A new period in our life - and a new beginning we hope
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Posted by bunnyRys on Fri 11 Jun 04, 1:29 PM
How committed can a couple be if a 7 or 8 week stint
of 'no-sex' equals a license to cheat for ˝ that couple?
On June 28th, I will be visiting Canada for 3 weeks.
During that time, I expect that my boyfriend/Dom will
be faithful to me as I will be with him. If I was gone
for three or four or even five times that long, I would
expect the same level of commitment as we are in love
and have a monogamous relationship.
Moreover, I respect the physical safety of my Dom.
Before we became intimate, we were thoroughly tested
for STD's. I would not allow, nor be expected to be
allowed to have sexual relations with an outside party
for fear that something may be contracted. And for
those of you who foolishly believe that condoms give
full protection please read
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/pubs/facts/condoms.htm.
Your sub may have agreed or even suggested the
arrangement under duress or out of a “will to please”
Should you decide to cheat on her she will have
questions such as “Is she more skilled than me in bed?”
or “Is she better looking than me?” which she may be
too shy or scared to ask. Also, at the moment
you 'know' that when she is recovered the cheating will
stop, BUT how can you be sure that this is the case?
What if you develop feelings for this other person?
Hive'Master', I strongly suggest you avoid the
inclination to cheat during this period and instead
invest the extra energy from abstaining from sex into
helping your sub recover both physically and mentally
from this major operation.
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