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2 Dec 2008, 11:51 AM GMT
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IC : Weblogs : bunnyRys : "Crying and BDSM (topic from bondage.com forums)"
Crying and BDSM (topic from bondage.com forums)
bunnyRys's profile
Posted by bunnyRys on Fri 19 Dec 03, 10:57 AM
On www.bondage.com, we are discussing crying in BDSM.
Do subs need it? Do Doms like it? Why do we react in
the matter that we do? The thread is located on b.com
under All
Forums ^ BDSM Talk and Support ^ BDSM Technique ^
Crying. I am cross-posting my thoughts as it is
something I wanted to share that may help others
involved in the scene.
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Growing up in an emotionally abusive household meant I
was not allowed to cry i.e. “If you cry about that,
I'll give you something to cry about!” Consequently, I
learned to control my tears. After age 9 and until I
became involved in BDSM, the only times anyone saw me
cry was when I broke my arm or was dumped by my first
boyfriend. Being beaten until I cry is not just
cathartic for me. The crying heals something in me that
should never have been broken. The pain is helping me
embrace a whole range of emotions that I previously
denied.
As I embrace my submission, I reclaim my humanity.
Regards,
bunny
--
"To be free, one must give up a little part of ones
self." - Stephen Trask
Edited Fri 19 Dec 03, 11:05 AM by bunnyRys
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