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IC : Weblogs : bunnyRys : "Leave Blackowner be"

Leave Blackowner be

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bunnyRys
Posted by bunnyRys on Mon 8 Dec 03, 12:54 PM

Blackowner is stating a “Personal Preference” Many of us have stated personal preferences on our profiles that can be deemed in questionable good taste. How many BBW's would be upset at the requests for petite women? How many male subs would loose the stomach for their search if they were not rich and well endowed? How shocked would you be at the hundreds of ads by older men looking for MUCH younger women and visa versa?

Admittedly, her views in her ad are confrontational. However, these were probably stated to improve her chances of finding someone who shares her beliefs. As a Domme, she may receive thousands of worthless replies to her ad. This extra information in her ad may help dissuade subs she deems undesirable from responding.

I caught the interest of my Dom through my former Informed Consent ad. If I had written my ad like this “White large breasted female sub seeks reasonably fit, tall (6”ft or over), white man aged 26-32 who knows what to do with his hands! Men who are fat, jobless and lack own transport need not apply. All responses may be publicly and/or privately ridiculed.” I sincerely doubt I would be gifted with his heart.

I don't understand how people can contemplate censorship on a website “focusing on consensual Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and S&M and Fetish in the UK” She is obviously stating a fetish for which she needs a specific submissive partner to fulfil her fantasies, leave her be.

Edited Mon 8 Dec 03, 1:22 PM by bunnyRys

 
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