Posted by bunnyRys on Fri 5 Dec 03, 12:58 PM to bunnyRys's blog.
CrateMonkey, I fully understand your predicament. As a female sub, I too look for at least a minimal level of experience in my Doms. However, this is a means to protect myself from creeps seeking to use BDSM to find “a quick slut to fuck” Please don't take offence at that statement, I am not implying you are that kind of pervert.
I recommend that newbie Doms find a Dom/Domme to be their mentor in the scene. He/she can teach flogging technique and be a guide to the more physiological aspects of BDSM. By attending munches and letting people know you're sincere; you have a better chance of attracting a sub. Keep in mind that some people you approach may not be comfortable in a 1 on 1 situation but may feel safer playing with you in a more public arena like a club or play party. If you follow these suggestions, when next you are queried on your lack of experience you will have the knowledge and contacts you need to satisfy your sub that she/he will not be harmed.
Good luck! bunny
Edited Fri 5 Dec 03, 12:59 PM by bunnyRys
