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| 24 Jun 07, 2:05 PM corriander_THM UK(FY), 9 yrs |
I wish you all the luck in the world. I would find it difficult to be dommed by anyone significantly younger than me, but that is a personal choice. I think young Dom/mes find it harder to be accepted. Young subs, especially female ones, are in high demand though, and not always by the nicest of people, who just see them as some sort of trophy. There are a lot of tolerant people in the scene who are more interested in the person than the age, people who will match you, who will bring out the best in you. Good luck.
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| 24 Jun 07, 2:08 PM Miss_Dee UK(L), 5 yrs    |
Same here, but I will chat if they are asking for advice. Miss Tura
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| 24 Jun 07, 2:12 PM Deviant_Bitch UK(G), 6 yrs  |
I know a Domme on collarme who likes them very young. I think as someone has already mentioned some people get to a certain age and like young fresh meat to prove a point. So if the OP does not mind Mrs Robinson then who knows. Wii's are like buses you wait months for one and then two come along. | |
| 24 Jun 07, 2:19 PM Diablos_patience UK, 6 yrs |
Where as generally im atracted to the younger guy, i wouldnt play with someone of your age... though i do frequently talk to several guys who are late teens early 20's, it is just general chit chat and advice. Though if im really honest i have no idea why not.. apart from the fact that when out and about they would look like my son... yep thats plenty good enough reason....lol Good luck x Its not me talking.. its the wine!! | |
| 24 Jun 07, 3:34 PM TheSecretHistory UK(N), 5 yrs |
Very interesting and insightful Thanks people! | |
| 24 Jun 07, 4:26 PM Boots247 UK, 7 yrs |
I think age is a personal preference, and can vary to the individual.
I would say someone up to ten years older would work for me, but ten years younger would not at this moment, let me get ten years older then someone ten years older or younger would work. Age is no barrier, its down to the individuals tastes and desires. As for being a young sub, as a sub of any age you will get rejected so don't blame your age on that one. Chewing on my latex!! Edited 12 Jul 07, 4:27 PM by Boots247 | |
| 24 Jun 07, 9:57 PM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
My serious lovers have always been the same age as me or older.I have always been turned on by the added power that seniority brings.So senior by age and senior by their juxtaposition with me. | |
| 24 Jun 07, 10:09 PM AshUK UK(EN), 7 yrs £ |
I remember coming on to the scene as a Dom of 28 - and being told I was too young to be dominant ! Similarly, I've known subs of 18 or 19 being told that they are too young to know what they want, or being told that they are too young to play safely etc.... There's no great mystique to D/s - I think if you're old enough to know that you're into this, then you're old enough to start exploring it. If a prospective Mistress prefers her subs to be older than you, then there's not much that you can do about it. It's her prerogative, after all. But stick it out, and at some point you'll find someone who accepts you for who you are and doesn't have a problem with your age. | |
| 25 Jun 07, 12:13 PM MarkVarley  UK(PE), 7 yrs |
I've been 'a Dom', since I was 15 (ok, mostly I was a 'rope top' until around 19/20). I've played with many people much older than me, age really has nothing to do with it. It's something you are, not something you grow into. Mark Edited 25 Jun 07, 12:15 PM by MarkVarley | |
| 25 Jun 07, 12:35 PM skyfox UK(EH), 5 yrs  |
ditto |
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