Making tea (60)

This is imperative - for Our woodland tea party this weekend, I will be taking them because I so love the dainty noise, and the sound of the tea being pored into them. I also like to have crystal to drink cold drinks from. Antique Thomas Webb or Baccarat. Fabulous contrast when most picnic - ers around have those modern plastic glass lookalikes.

I'm such a snob!

Chewing on my latex!!

Seconded! It was *so much* fun. However a good selection of teas (eg. Oolong, Gunpowder, Lapsang) adds to the enjoyment I feel, especially if every lady has a different choice...

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You've tried cats piss?

Absolutely. I like mine rosie.

I think I have finally mastered this stage of my training though.

"Come to the edge" He said
" I might fall"
"Come to the edge" He whispered
"It's too high"
"Come to the edge" He ordered
I did, He pushed, I flew

Miss Tura

velvetsub wrote: I was wondering.. how many of you involve tea making into your bdsm life? As a bit of a ritual I mean, not just having a sip after doing some whipping How did you start with it? Did you show your sub/slave how to do it perfectly first or was it a trial and error mission for him/her? How did you punish in case it was wrong?

I get mine to make me coffee, shine my boots and various stuff. If I liked tea I'd do that too.

moo

We have been together for five years, living together/married for three and still to this day I think Ive managed, begrudgingly to make Him less than about 5 cups of tea for Him ever.

In fact, we spent far far too long playing an online game (World of Warcraft) Where I was raid leader (HAH!). This is rather amusing simply because I can tend to have a very short temper and would end up screaming at the computer and at people on the internet (I've calmed down a lot since we stopped playing).

But one evening after much screaming and ranting on my part Master asked if I wanted a mug of cocoa, since then He realised that cocoa or chocolate milk has calming effects on me when I'm in "rant-mode" and when I get into rant-mode because of my computer crashing or whatever reason at all He just slinks off to the kitchen and returns with a mug of cocoa or chocolate milk and I soon realise I was being a biznitch and feel rather sheepish about my behaviour.

However, these days when I lose my temper Master just immediately tells me "Stop that!" And I realise I was starting to lose it and soon calm down.

Back to the topic of tea making.... Master constantly jokes how He should have written prenuptuals stating that Tea making should have been part of our relationship.

I like the idea of making tea as part of a ritual but as I've never been one for hot drinks - in fact my drink of choice has and probably always will be water - I don't think I'd ever be able to make good cups of tea as I don't know what 'A good cup of tea' tastes like.... Tea is tea, its all the same.

I'm the same with coffee, tho I love ice blended coffee drinks, I simply don't do hot drinks.

Only when it's been a choice between that and green tea.

"When what is indestructible meets what is irresistible, the female all too often wins."

The making of tea the drink or the meal is a ritual because food is such an important part of life and of familiy and pair bonding.

No one ever just makes a cup of tea. Consider the implications of making yourself a cup but not your partner or guest.

Whether the making of teas as a ritual within a D/S relationship is any different I cant say, as I don't do (Or even understand) D/S.

Zen S&M; the sound of one hand smacking.