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Do female subs look at profiles/ads? (79)

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11 Jul 07, 8:20 PM
therealwakka
UK(WF), 5 yrs

Well for amusement i've made my profile vis again.

I'll get back to you if one messages me.

Before it was hidden yes i did get messages.

Not many but a few

I seem to just find the ones I'm looking for anyway

oh edit.

One thing I found I got messaged by people mostly who had no profile or kept theirs hidden.

And out of them I found real gem

Edited 11 Jul 07, 8:21 PM by therealwakka

11 Jul 07, 9:19 PM
saraxx
UK, 7 yrs
Yes, when not in a relationship I have been known to peruse the ads. I can't see the point in sitting back and waiting for Doms to contact me. Why? :

a) just seems a bit lazy, and

b) I would prefer to pick someone to talk to who seem to be on my wavelength (from profile and any posts), rather than receive messages from those who clearely aren't.

S

'A woman, without her man, is nothing.
A woman: without her, man is nothing'

11 Jul 07, 11:32 PM
northernwench
7 yrs
viragoangel wrote:
bound2giggle wrote:
I don't tend to browse the ads but if a piece of writing or pic interests me when i'm browsing the boards/blogs then i will take a look at the profile.

Ditto...may send a memo commenting on what caught my eye but have never made first contact with a Dom,nor would I. Besides I am not looking as my profile clearly states.

Bloody hell, you're home quick! :-D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=466L5dJhmUQ What happens when you lose everything..? You start again..you start all over again

12 Jul 07, 5:31 PM
sara_LM
5 yrs
i am proactive so yes i do look at ads, i also look at profiles, pictures, what people post about and threads they respond to.

If i see someone i like i tend to make it known that i am interested and then leave the ball in the court of the other.

If i was to sit back and wait for people to find me the type of person i am looking for might not see my profile due to the limited times i log in, so why not be proactive?

sara xx

"A masochist walked up to a sadist, and said 'Hurt me'. The sadist said 'No' and walked away."

12 Jul 07, 5:57 PM
Tara_Red
UK(B), 5 yrs
£
When I first came on here after the end of a very long D/S relationship I read all the ads n replied to a couple of doms and when we got chatting they were both 'omg an actual real life reply you must be a nutter then' which really put me off especially as one asked me to book a hotel and pay for a meal!

They both said they rarely get real female sub replies on this board but lots from sub males plus blokes pretending to be female who always wanted to chat a lot but never meet obviously!

I've also found doms who were married & want to come to mine, I don't do married even if I wasn't looking for a relationship! Then there's the ones who have memo'ed me with empty profiles covered of course on another thread.

I then discovered the web boards and haven't read the ads since, if I spot someone who writes what I like I'll click on the profile and have a quick look and memo a hi tho that has been rare, but I'm not giving up hope. I prefer meeting people at BBB clubs etc then they get to know the real me.

Good luck in your search Suffolktiger.

Edited 12 Jul 07, 6:36 PM by Tara_Red

12 Jul 07, 6:32 PM
Oh_Ingrid
UK(SW), 6 yrs
I used the site purely for making contacts for nearly a year and a half before I ever bothered to read a single thread or posting.

In that time I contacted a lot of Doms and played with several. I also had a very intense six month Master/ slave relationship with one I found here. I'm not quite sure if he's still speaking to me though....

Also, in the past when I wanted subbie boys, I contacted them here too. Again meeting and being in some way involved with several over the course of time.

I guess that makes me an unusual and very forward slut, but there ya go. Only live once....

Ingrid x
"The habit of giving only enhances the desire to give." Walt Whitman
“How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.” Oscar Wilde

12 Jul 07, 6:53 PM
Tara_Red
UK(B), 5 yrs
£
Just read your profile - doesn't do anything for me soz!

As you've got 3 previous names I feel you've got something to hide (but it turns out you just keep changing your mind lol!) and you've no photo. But then there's lots of peeps on here who say they reply to ads with no photos.

I never mention the fact I'm divorced, I always say 'single' I rushed into a marriage over a decade ago for 3 years and that was 2 years too long, it didn't work out so why should I have to tell everyone I failed for the rest of my days? I find that everyone nowadays expects anyone single and over the age of 35 to have been divorced at least once lol!

12 Jul 07, 8:06 PM
twisted_kitty
UK(OX), 4 yrs

I would read the profiles and ads to be nosey if there is anything i like or just curious about i will send a memo. I will read them if i recieve a memo too.
12 Jul 07, 8:10 PM
Turingalila
4 yrs
Well, I haven't been here very long and I have 1054 views, so I imagine that at least some of those are female subs (unless they are all simply from me checking how many profile views I have...).

Don't have a single memo, though, whether from a sub or anyone else, so I'm clearly doing something wrong. Heigh ho. I'll survive.

Quiero hacer contigo lo que la primavera hace con los cerezos

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