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Regarding the upcoming munch at the Hogs Head, not sure how I feel about it.
I've managed to keep knowledge of my passion for S&M, Dom/sub etc, confined to me and whoever was my partner at the time. It's not that long ago that you'd want to keep that sort of thing to yourself, but it seems that people are much more open about it now. I think part of the attraction was that when we were out with freinds or in any public place we'd be thinking 'If only they knew what we get upto', and even people close to us wouldn't have a clue.
Now all of a sudden there's a multitude of events to attend. If only it had been this way 20yrs'ago. I've kept things to myself for so long that it'll be strange to be in a place where everybody there has 'tastes' that are broadly speaking compatible with each other. Now I'm no 'shrinking violet', or unfreindly,but I can be a fairly private person and after so many years 'in the closet' it'll just seem a bit of an odd situation. It may seem stupid, but I can't imagine what people at these events talk about or how relaxed the mood is. I suppose I'll find out.
The only other slight concern I have is that; I can't see there being a huge number (if any) of obviously ethnic minorities in attendance. That being the case, I'll probably stick out like a sore thumb, so anyone who's read this log and the Personals will be able to put the ad and the person together. It'll be in my mind that people will be thinking ' Oh yes that must be Lingus..he likes to....' I don't know if that's good or bad, and again I suppose I'll find out in due course.
Edited Thu 12 Jun 03, 10:35 PM by Lingus
