Lingus's profile . Lingus's homepage
 |
| Lingus |
I've spent some time looking at a few of the ad's that men put up for female 'bottoms' and I've come accross a tiny number that frankly just stand no chance!
I mean it's just incredible to think that these blokes are serious. I can't repeat what was written, because it would be removed. When are some men going to learn that the target of their lust is actually a real person, who no matter how submisive they are, and who in time would maybe do what what was being demanded of them, ain't gonna respond to an ad like that. Some, prehaps many female submisives may want to be treated like a sex-toy some of the time, (thank you God) but very very few, if any,want to be treated like a 'thing' any of the time. I can imagine a female submisive who's just signed in picking any of these particular ad's as her first viewing, and that would probably be the end of her brief venture into the world of S&M. The sad thing is that if the guys who posted the ad's in question were to read this article, I don't beleive that they'd even know that it's about geezers like them. And this is from a man that considers himself to be extremely broad- minded, and who's not shocked by anything. What I thought wrong was that they barely mentioned, and show no consideration for the Woman AT ALL! They'd make a caveman look sofisticated!
Over the years I've been fortunate enough to have had a couple of relationships that I have and always will always consider to have been wicked,and I mean REALLY wicked!. My heart still misses a beat when I think about them, and I hope for more. But (and it's a BIG but) we got to that stage by taking one step at a time; slow and tepid, gradually rising to fever-pitch with an intensity that definately won't be forgoten. And in a Dom/sub kind of way, all consensual. I've always applied the same rule in all walks of life regarding relationships with the fair sex and genrally find it to be true; if you're prepared to just give a little, you'll receive a lot back in turn.
The point being, why rush to your destination when the journey is just so pleasurable? ...You know it makes sense.
Edited Tue 10 Jun 03, 12:47 AM by Lingus
