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| Sat 26 May 07, 3:36 AM gregstar UK(E), 5 yrs |
my slave and i have been together now for 15 months. we have run out of ideas for new things to try. Can anyone help us by giving some suggestions? we love each other very much and are still very happy. thanks G | ||
| 26 May 07, 7:38 AM Art_NW UK, 6 yrs   |
Run out of ideas!!!
How can this be possible? | ||
| 26 May 07, 8:04 AM soulful1 UK(RG), 5 yrs |
I'm with the other two on that one. Surely you can't have tried everything to do with BDSM in 15 months?
Everythings going to be ok, as long as I have enough beers: | ||
| 26 May 07, 8:12 AM ToyGirl UK(BB), 6 yrs |
Probably not a popular suggesion, but if you have run out of ideas after such a short length of time do you have the right partner for you ? tg x "Pain is just weakness leaving the body" | ||
| 26 May 07, 11:25 AM Deviant_Bitch UK(G), 6 yrs |
Go back and do them over again, try adding new things. Mixing it up, or just taking a break for a while and coming back to it with a fresh mind. Wii's are like buses you wait months for one and then two come along. | ||
| 26 May 07, 11:38 AM C4G_and_dd 7 yrs |
A simple tin of beans holds quite a few possibilities......see how many you can find J --------------------------------------------------- -------- | ||
| 26 May 07, 12:37 PM gregstar UK(E), 5 yrs |
were still having lots of fun, and are very happy. think i'l put it down to lack of experience! just hoping someone would suggest something new to us. =D | ||
| 26 May 07, 12:39 PM faceless_angel UK, 6 yrs |
how about going through a checklist and seeing what you both fancy trying out? | ||
| 26 May 07, 12:42 PM Jahc99 UK, 5 yrs |
Switch! why poison your liver when I could eat it for you? | ||
| 26 May 07, 1:17 PM Demmie PT, 12 yrs |
I would suggest you mix and match two or three concepts together - also over longer periods and at different times. Go through what you have already tried - again but with different eyes and in different situations. Try different toys , maybe try rubber impact toys rather than leather , maybe try different roles. If you are really stuck try and get to one of the good clubs and watch other people play to get some inspiration or go the the BBB SWAMP or LAM and watch the demonstrations and workshops. "Throughout history, it has been the inaction of those who could have acted; the indifference of those who should have known better; the silence of the voice of justice when it mattered most; that has made it possible for evil to triumph." Haile Selassie, 1892-1975 | ||
| 26 May 07, 1:21 PM lisal 9 yrs |
Sooooo predictable
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