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| Thu 5 Apr 07, 4:22 PM Abilene UK, 5 yrs |
My mom has developed this wonderful habit of just letting herself in to my house. I am in bed this morning and as Smudge (my cat) flys off the bed and scratches me in the process due to the sound of the door opening I groan thinking "It had better be a fucking stranger so I can cuss him" "Cooooeeeeee it's me Abi ...I'll put the kettle on shall I?" Great. So I get dressed and stumble downstairs only to see my mom frozen to the spot staring at the coffee table. Seems I left a bondage collar out. . . . . (Yes, I am a little weird I guess in that as a single sub I still like to sleep in a collar sometimes) * Intimacy is about more than just sex * Edited Thu 5 Apr 07, 4:23 PM by Abilene |
| 5 Apr 07, 4:53 PM StrictlyFunX UK(SO), 5 yrs  |
I can see that must have been an awkward situation. I guess asking for the keys back now would be understandable from her point of view and would prevent embarrassing situations arising in future. |
| 5 Apr 07, 4:57 PM Sinmara UK(N), 6 yrs  |
reminds me of my dad finding my cuffs when I was 21 lol he didn't say anything though, just grinned... ------------------------------------------- This is the Island of Zombie Women |
| 5 Apr 07, 4:57 PM MasterVilosSlave UK(CB), 6 yrs |
Mum just laughs at my collar and tugs it. She's seen a load of my bondage equipment and just politely doesn't mention it  Dad on the other hand I can't even mention 'perversions' without getting sulked at for a year. “A gentleman is someone who raises his hat before he beats his wife.” - British joke (ca. 1920) |
| 5 Apr 07, 4:58 PM MarkVarley  UK(PE), 7 yrs |
reminds me of an incident years ago when I was living in York, I was 17 and my mother visited, showng her around my place the inevitable peek into the bedroom bit was met with an 'oh, erm, oh' kind of moment. I thought I'd tidied up, thing is while I was doing so I'd had someone tied to the bed, I since let them loose and they left before mother arrived but the rope and handcuffs were still on the bed. oops.
Mark |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:05 PM gin_gerkitten UK(N), 5 yrs |
I once made the mistake of going home in my necklace with the handcuffs-key on it.
Mother asked what I was wearing the key to.
'A pair of handcuffs, Mother.
...
Anything else you'd like to know?' Change of subject.
"She's frequently kind, and she's suddenly cruel, She can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool, But she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree, And the most she will do is throw shadows at you, But she's always a Woman to me" - Billy Joel. |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:08 PM Talisker UK(OX), 12 yrs |
Innocence is a foreign country...and parents should realise that at least by the time you move out ! T.
"The sunshine in your heart: more important than the sunshine on your skin." |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:08 PM freakowen UK(HD), 6 yrs |
I had a pair of handcuffs hanging from my head board for about three years whilst living at hoome - strangely enough neither parent thought to mention it... I do remember my mother very reluctantly asking if the pain was part of the reason for getting my nipple pierced when I was 16 (it wasn't) but I really don't think they'd be particularly surprised at much from me these days - neither of them have keys to my place though...just in case... |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:13 PM Irrepressible_Red UK(M), 5 yrs |
I'm moving out this weekend. Whilst I've been home living with the rents (after graduating to pay off the overdraft) I've had a "hiding it in plain view" policy. ie, it's all neatly in a box on a shelf. But i just know they're gonna get sneaky peeky when I'm moving. Mum think's i'm incapable of packing so keeps trying to re-pack my boxes... This'll learn her! |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:25 PM Ishmael UK(SE), 12 yrs |
Yup, it is a problem with parents; they can attempt to retain the right to access all areas of your life when really and truly you are a grown up with rights to stuff like privacy. And enshrined in European Law now, I understand; I don't know if my mother would recognise that. Whichever way she's never been in my home, because if she knew about how my sexuality worked, she'd be demanding that I go to the doctor and get it fixed. I've spent some time asserting my right to express my own sexuality, that includes the right not to have to justify it to anyone, and that includes the right to silence if my mother ever raises the issue. I'm pleased to say she doesn't use the internet. |
| 5 Apr 07, 6:25 PM Skylon UK(BS), 8 yrs |
Every generation thinks that they invented kinky sex (and drugs and rock and roll baby!). A friend of mine came out to their parents last year and discovered that their relationship was pretty much kinkier than hers. Imagine that... all the stress building up to the moment when you tell your parents you're a perve and then bang! Oh yeah your mothers a real sadistic bitch in the bedroom... What a gobsmacking turn of events. Live your life according to a glib cliche that you read in someone's signature. |
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