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Posted by dizziblonde
on Sun 1 Apr 07, 3:56 PM to dizziblonde's blog.
Last night i spoke to a good friend of mine about L ..
Apparently L is telling anyone that will listen that i am making a fool of myself with the french pilot.
Her words to a friend of mine where ... why the hell would a pilot want C when he can have any woman he wants .. I sooo want to confront her but you know what i feel like i have to tip toe around her incase i push her over the edge and she tries to kill herself again..
I know i cant stop her coming on holiday with me as she has booked and paid for it but we are sharing a room, I will be going off with E for 5-7 days in the middle but she will still be a burden to my mum and family. Grrrrr what shall i do
| 1 Apr 07, 4:40 PM werewolf UK(CF), 9 yrs  |
go on holiday and do your own thing be strong and enjoy yourself screw what anyone says or thinks love finds people in the strangest of places who watches the watchers when the watchers watch you |
| 1 Apr 07, 4:51 PM alexandraa UK(NW), 8 yrs |
You must do what's best for you. Do not let your submissive nature become a tool that harms you. It's an old story - putting everyone else before yourself because hurt to you is easier to deal with than hurt to anyone else. Is this what you are doing? If so don't allow it.
Be careful what you wish for |
| 1 Apr 07, 5:03 PM fluffy_welsh_angel UK(DN), 6 yrs |
kill her! ..... Sorry, It's a pain, but I really think that you need to speak to her about it else it is going to really spoil the holiday for you and your parents. IF she were to do anything it wouldn't be your fault hun. But to be honest, she will probaably just deny saying anything. It's a tricky one X --------------------------------------------------- -------- Never make someone you're priority when you to them are only an option. |
| 2 Apr 07, 4:42 PM SirLancealot UK(CM), 6 yrs |
Dont care that she has booked and paid for it, I dont know any of you characters in this particular IC play, but no true friend would say such a cruel thing behind your back, so F*** her and tell her to find her own accomadation. Enjoy your Pilot even though he is french. x |
| 2 Apr 07, 6:37 PM candle_in_the_wind UK(RM), 5 yrs |
An old adage : if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing.
But some are hard pushed to keep to this.
They usually say unkind things when they are either worried or jealous. This sounds like the latter to me.
If you do not wish to confront her you can casually drop into conversation how wonderfully good your pilot is for you while secretly singing na-na-na-na-na The Gene Pool could use a little Chlorine |
Be safe, be happy