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| 26 Mar 07, 11:32 AM chartreuse UK(BA), 6 yrs   |
Even a Dom/me will lose their temper sometimes, especially if a sub is constantly bratty and misbehaved. When/if a sub is not able or prepared to submit to at least a few things, be polite and respectful, they tend to piss me off and I can't be bothered to waste my time trying to control a spoiled brat who clearly is not someone who wants to please me. If they are rude they get rude back.
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| 26 Mar 07, 1:04 PM DDDDom 6 yrs  |
Rudeness merely highlights one's vulnerabilities - which may be a good thing but not everyone is that perceptive or conscious of the fact that they are presenting in that way 
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| 26 Mar 07, 1:07 PM RosieLady UK(AB), 6 yrs |
hmmm..well some subs don't want me to be polite, they want me to call them a nasty ugly little piece of human garabage.. or words to that effect but in general? yes of course | ||
| 26 Mar 07, 1:32 PM gimpneil UK(DN), 7 yrs |
Dont underestimate the power to screw with peoples head when someone who should be forceful and demanding is polite and kind.... helps drop their guard allowing you to highern the scene when you change to something else. | ||
| 26 Mar 07, 2:59 PM CaptainAndg UK(CM), 5 yrs |
To mericlessly misquote Oscar Wilde: "A true Dom is one who is never unintentionally rude". Some people do deserve as good as they get, however to be rude to people who have no comeback and with whom you have no relationship - unacceptable. | ||
| 26 Mar 07, 3:03 PM dean2001 7 yrs |
Polite? Polite my arse. It's PC gone mad. Whack your subs butt extra hard if she tels you to watch your effin manners. Back in the day, subs were grateful for a bit of dry bread and some water. Now they want microwaved ready meals and politeness. Perhaps you'd like us to be all kindly and sensitive too?
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| 26 Mar 07, 3:31 PM dean2001 7 yrs |
As you're new here, you can be forgiven for not spotting I was wearing my irony pants This space for sale. | ||
| 26 Mar 07, 3:38 PM Aneirin UK(PL), 5 yrs |
Politeness is a prerequisite at all times,whether it be BDSM play,or real life.One can be firm and get things done by being polite,it is not the words or level of voice that command,but what is behind those words.As to impolite people,them when confronted,I am polite,why should I lower my standards for someone elses rudeness.
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| 26 Mar 07, 3:46 PM ghost666 6 yrs |
not just Doms...nothing can excuse bad manners no matter what side of the fence your on.
I see you lying next to me | ||
| 26 Mar 07, 4:03 PM dean2001 7 yrs |
Uppity sub alert! Uppity sub alert! Someone fetch me the flogatron 3000. If we don't stop it now it'll get out of control. Once she's joined Rosalee's gang they'll be no hope for her...or us.
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