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| firemynx_B |
on Sat 16 Aug 03, 5:39 PM to firemynx_B's blog.
Got back to Midlands at gone 1pm, had a few tasks to do and shopping (hey im female, it's a necessity), then went off to the munch, was really good to do so, lost wolf, L Plates and a few other newer people were going, so I was looking forward to meeting them.
However, I did feel uncomfortable with one person that went along today, I hoped he would not be so intense in real life as what he is online. I had started speaking to this person and offered to meet them for a drink so they didn't feel quite so intimidated before his first munch. Unfortunately the person in question (no im not about to name names, I'm doing this to warn that being helpful comes with caution) seen this as a sign that I wanted it to go further than an actual drink, and had built up a whole scenario/relationship in his mind, he had become very agitated and angry when I called off a drink because I had forgotten I was already going out with Friends on Thursday, telling me that I was putting friends before my Dom, to which I replied that he was not my Dom, LH was. I found this frustrating because I was completely honest about my network of relationships, and had to question if I had led him on, which I know I hadn't.
The person in question spent the whole time staring at me, or projecting his body language in such a way that it made me feel totally uncomfortable. Other people noticed it too, so I wasn't being paranoid. Whenever I was giving anyone a hug he glared and mumbled, he commented about the bites on my neck from LH, he commented on the tag I got engraved stating “LH's pet kitten”, and at one point I really thought he was going to rip it off he seemed so intense, almost angered. I had to keep removing myself from the “newbie table” because it was becoming draining, I was being watched by P a lot of the time to make sure I was ok, he too commented he found this persons actions strange and excessive. I tried to act as normally as I could, treating him the same as others, hugging him, chatting to him, but short of dragging lost wolf and sweet tooth onto my lap, it was all I could do to stop him from invading my personal space.
LH has asked me to write this web log ASAP, so that others can be warned. No I wont name the person here, that is not fair, but his conduct and the way he presents himself does concern me, do I think he could he dangerous? I don't know, but I don't want to take the risk of people not questioning themselves, and would like people to be exceptionally careful when being helpful and friendly (no im not saying don't be welcoming, please always do, but not at risk to yourself), and be very careful about how much personal information you give.
Edited Sat 16 Aug 03, 5:45 PM by firemynx_B
