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| 12 Apr 07, 1:42 PM RavenMuse 6 yrs |
Height has never been an issue for Me, but then I've never been involved with anyone close to My height. My tallest girl was 5'10" and even in heels could only just about match Me.
My shortest girl was 4'10" (Though she claimed 4'11" *g*). Wasn't too bad, I just picked her up when I wanted to kiss her when where stood |
| 12 Apr 07, 1:56 PM Dr_Doo UK(FY), 6 yrs   |
my height (or lack of it) has never been a problem for me or any girls i've played with...as there's not a lot i can do about it it'd be rather silly to let it be a problem. i'm 5'2" but 6' in my head...i'm always suprised when i see myself next to someone and they tower above me. i learnt many years ago on the judo mat that my height and weight (7.5st) are no barrier to 'dealing with' anyone bigger than me. if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got! |
| 12 Apr 07, 3:27 PM Nadezhda UK(HP), 5 yrs |
i always thought that height was a big issue for me - with men anyway. at 6ft 3" in heels, i felt that only a taller man could dominate me. the case with women is different ie i have no height preference. when speaking with my potential partner online, i mentioned that when we met up he had better be over the magic 6ft mark. he casually replied that he was in a wheelchair. all my previous misconceptions about height have since disappeared. the force of a dominant personality is what counts. N x 'If you just set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything ... and you would achieve nothing.' Lenny Bruce 1966 |
| 12 Apr 07, 3:42 PM bondage06 UK, 6 yrs |
I was thinking that my height put me at a disadvantage, so reading through this has definately made my day! 
The Domme who has made the biggest impression on me was over a foot shorter than me - for the brief moments she allowed me to stand...  |
| 12 Apr 07, 3:46 PM frapperia UK, 5 yrs |
I'm only 5'2, so everyone's going to be taller than me anyway. Having said that, I prefer men I'm with to be 5'9-10 or above - I like to be with a taller man vanilla-wise, unfortunately I have no experience of kink play yet so I don't know how that would change when I do! I know I could never marry a man who was around the same height as me, they'd have to be a good few inches taller - I'm simply not attracted to guys who are that short, never have been. Edited 12 Apr 07, 3:50 PM by frapperia |
| 13 Apr 07, 5:48 PM BadWulf UK(TA), 6 yrs |
At 6'4 I have never exactly had a problem in this area however I have certainly been told by many female subs that they could not imagine beign dommned by a man shorter tham themselves, (including heels). There was I am afraid whilst considerign the dread alternative ..giggling. Its interestign that this prejudice/preference seems inverted for many male subs on this thread.
I have to admit I do love the imagery and experience of petite partners, the abilty to have complete physical control and their inherent 'flippability' makes for a nicely controlling physical experience to match the mental. Tis all good fun J. Edited 14 Apr 07, 12:47 AM by BadWulf |
