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| WaterDragon |
I am not very happy today.
The week before last, I got a leave of absence from work to look after my Father full time. He has been suffering with lung cancer, which could not be cured due to there being a secondary when it was discovered.
Yesterday morning at 04-30 he died while I held his hand, today I have organised his funeral. I'm pissed off and fed up, I already miss the poor bugger. 
Hugs to all.
Irene.
| 8 Feb 07, 8:56 PM Captmick UK(CO), 7 yrs  |
best wishes |
| 8 Feb 07, 8:57 PM doctorgas UK, 5 yrs |
Very sad news. My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time. The doctor formerly known as wibble... |
| 8 Feb 07, 8:57 PM Trulysub UK(E), 7 yrs |
He was a sweetie and he knew as much about battles as Mr F at the munch! His chocolate pudding that night almost made me mug him. Remember the happy times Irene. Look at those pictures and remember what a special relationship you both had. Big hugs E xxx Oooh! I've just found out how to use this! |
| 8 Feb 07, 8:59 PM x_AngelsEyes_x 5 yrs |
Our thoughts are with you xx |
| 8 Feb 07, 9:14 PM LouiseM UK, 8 yrs |
I'm so sorry for you loss Irene. Sending you some strength and best wishes. Louise. Going to school does not make a person educated, any more than going to a garage makes a person a car |
| 8 Feb 07, 9:40 PM GazUK1963 UK(B), 6 yrs |
There is nothing that I can say to comfort you. Just to let you know that I know what you are going through. My thoughts are with you. Gary x. Everyone who lives dies, but not everyone who dies has truly lived. |
| 8 Feb 07, 9:42 PM slave517 5 yrs £ |
Never met you, really sorry about your parent.
My mother died at 50 of cancer, know how your feeling.
Just remember your not alone out there, there are others in the same boat. Regards, David |
| 8 Feb 07, 10:00 PM DavetheButcher UK(M), 5 yrs |
Fucking hell pet, that is one rough 24 hours. May your pain ease quickly. God bless ya, Dave Listen to the colour of the sky, Look for the sound of the Hummingbirds wings, Search the air for the perfume of ice on a hot day. |
| 9 Feb 07, 6:35 AM WaterDragon UK(LN), 6 yrs |
Thank you all for your support, it has helped a great deal. Over the last six years my Father had I had got very close, it will be a wrench to attend his funeral. On a practical note, My parents both pre bought their funerals some years ago. They spent £800 on a basic funeral, which would now cost between £1500 and £2000, it also made organising it very easy as I did not have to worry about finding the money. I intend in the next six minths to do the same, and I recommend the action to all those with loved ones who will have to look after their funery arrangements. Hugs, Irene.
Yet Dom as I am _
Still I crave the wind from your sub wings |
| 9 Feb 07, 10:02 AM crimsonsky UK, 7 yrs |
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Best wishes. " I'm a lady and I like to do ladies things like press flowers, stroke kittens and swim in the river wearing dresses and hats" Lady Emily |
