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calling the feminists (11)

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Posted by MarkVarley* on Thu 25 Jan 07, 8:23 PM to MarkVarley's blog.

every few weeks i get an email from some nut, often under the banner of 'feminist', complaining that my photography is demeaning to women (the art nudes) and promotes violent abuse of women (the bondage).

both points are utter bollocks in my opinion.

any feminists in the house in a position to give me some strong comebacks or other quick-witted responses to these emails for the days when i feel like picking a fight as opposed to just ignoring them?

(edited cos i can't type for toffee)

Edited Thu 25 Jan 07, 8:29 PM by MarkVarley

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25 Jan 07, 8:28 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
tell them they need to take the stick out of their arse and get a cock up their cunts pronto.

that oughta do it :-D

La Douleur Exquise
last of the international slut girls
Life is like the Tango... sad, sensual, sexy, violent and quiet.

25 Jan 07, 8:30 PM
MarkVarley*
UK(PE), 7 yrs
velvet32 wrote:
tell them they need to take the stick out of their arse and get a cock up their cunts pronto.

that oughta do it :-D

nice comeback but i have no issues with the lesbians and a comeback like that would have them outside my house with flaming torches and pitchforks lol

Mark
>:o"You have the right to remain Violent">:o
Beautiful Bondage, the art of rope bondage, Volume one. Available Now.

25 Jan 07, 8:32 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
replace the cock with a strapon for the lesbians ;)

La Douleur Exquise
last of the international slut girls
Life is like the Tango... sad, sensual, sexy, violent and quiet.

25 Jan 07, 8:35 PM
littlenic
5 yrs
Well, I don't know if it's a strong come-back, or quick witted for that matter... but to me feminism is about women having the right to choose to do whatever they want to do, and to be whatever they want to be, rather than having no choice other than to adhere to (patriarchal) society's predetermined roles. Therefore, as long as the ladies involved in your shoots are willing (and I assume they are :-D) then feminism has won them the right to participate.

After all, if I as a woman can only do what feminists say I can do - how has feminism won me any more freedom than before? Then I'm just doing what women say I should rather than what men say I should - no better. I should only do what *I* say I should.

Just because I'm submissive, doesn't make me any less of a feminist. Feminism should be about me being able to be who I am - whether that's to be submissive, dominant, or whatever.

Just my thoughts, and how I make who I am and what I do match seamlessly with my feminist beliefs.

Edited 25 Jan 07, 9:03 PM by littlenic

25 Jan 07, 8:37 PM
caprycorn
8 yrs
Tell them that they are missing the element of choice, and that a woman choosing to express her sexuality in such a way is about as empowering a statement as it's possible for her to make. She's not afraid of it; why should they deny her that? And what are they afraid in turn? And would they feel the same way if your name was Marcia?

My imaginary friend thinks that you have a problem

25 Jan 07, 8:42 PM
Romola
UK, 7 yrs

Echoing littlenic really. When anti-porn feminists come up with bollocks like this, they are basically suggesting that women who enjoy porn, participate in it, or are turned on by submission are suffering from a form of false consciousness. The stance tells these women that their choices aren't valid, that they aren't capable of choosing for themselves. It tells women that, like children, someone else needs to 'protect' them from themselves. It's deeply patronising and deeply offensive.

Dedaggadaggadoodoodayadoh Petition to stop the 'violent porn' proposals

Edited 25 Jan 07, 8:44 PM by Romola

25 Jan 07, 8:43 PM
mini_velvet
UK(EH), 6 yrs
Romola wrote:
It's deeply patronising and deeply offensive.

nodding.

La Douleur Exquise
last of the international slut girls
Life is like the Tango... sad, sensual, sexy, violent and quiet.

25 Jan 07, 9:00 PM
MarkVarley*
UK(PE), 7 yrs
thanks for the words folks, some nice stuff there that should fuck them off and hopefully educate a few.

and yea, everyone i've ever tied up has wanted it in one capacity or another.

Mark
>:o"You have the right to remain Violent">:o
Beautiful Bondage, the art of rope bondage, Volume one. Available Now.

25 Jan 07, 10:53 PM
Ms_Tytania
7 yrs
Just ask them, if they object to it so strongly, what the hell they are doing on this forum in the first place, and looking of male Doms' profiles too. Hypocrits!

"There is a big secret about sex: most people don't like it."
Leo Bersani.

26 Jan 07, 12:57 PM
MarkVarley*
UK(PE), 7 yrs
Ms_Tytania wrote:
Just ask them, if they object to it so strongly, what the hell they are doing on this forum in the first place, and looking of male Doms' profiles too. Hypocrits!

It's usually emails via my websites that bring such comments.

Mark
>:o"You have the right to remain Violent">:o
Beautiful Bondage, the art of rope bondage, Volume one. Available Now.

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