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| 17 Jan 07, 10:44 PM Skyhook 7 yrs  |
Okies, I also think the P.M. thing refered to chat, not memos.
The memo recieved may not be to my taste in content and grammar(I'm guilty of knocking others spelling too, even though mine is rubish I think it's a bit harsh to post it on the boards. But, if the O.P. is genuine, she is new here, she's young and finding her I.C. feet. Maybe she needs to be cut a bit of slack by the I.C. 'hands'. We all have to start to learn some where. | ||
| 17 Jan 07, 11:49 PM Romola UK, 7 yrs  |
Dedaggadaggadoodoodayadoh Petition to stop the 'violent porn' proposals | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 12:02 AM saielle 6 yrs |
I don't know which way round it was done, all I can say is that my understanding is that the piece the OP quoted was a memo that had been sent to her. By co-incidence, I later came across the same 'copy' as part of someone's profile here. Now, whether or not that same person cut and pasted part of their own profile to send to the OP as a memo, or whether someone else did, I don't know. All I'm saying is, if read in the context of the whole profile, the text of the 'memo' forms part of something rather 'tongue in cheek', even the Dom's name is! For obvious reasons I am not going to divulge the name of the profile concerned here, however, if it would help, if the OP wants to memo me, I will let her know, so she can establish if it is the same person or not.
saielle | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 4:11 AM teach_me UK(OL), 6 yrs |
just so you know he does send that memo which he cut from his profile not that i thought it was bad .... i have had far worse lol your friendship means a lot to me ... when you cry , i will cry, when you laugh, i will laugh........ when you jump out the window, cos you think you can fly when you're pissed ..... i will look out the window and piss myself laughing | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 12:31 PM TheFalconer UK(S), 6 yrs |
Having now seen the profile this memo is an extract from - no, he's not for real, it's clearly a joke profile. "Morality, like art, means drawing a line someplace." - Oscar Wilde | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 3:32 PM MasterSilk UK(BS), 12 yrs |
Well it is said that we are all up our own backsides pompous, arrogant and self oppinionated. However that said surely we should then be asking what your desires in BDSM are to see if we are compatible after all how do we know that you will like what we like without prior knowledge. Some may be S/M orientated some might be D/S orientated or whatever combination of the forementioned or any part of BDSM. In my humble opinion and not being that experienced on matters of personal ads the guy is a little to ME ME ME but who knows maybe a conversation or two might prove him to be the greatest thing since who knows what. After all when Myself and dizzy met we hated each others guts she thought I was a pompous arrogant so and so and I thought she was a mouthy little so and so who needed to be taught a lesson, what happened we got married and are very happy thank you. With all due respect to each and every one every one deserves to be given the benefit of the doubt so talk a little more through messages get to know him better you will soon see through he facade if it is one and you have not lost anything by messaging. These of course are just my thoughts and probably not much help but who knows? I remain respectfully MasterSilk | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 3:33 PM Black_Saddler UK, 6 yrs |
Having also located the profile I would have to agree, although I will give him the benefit of the doubt if he provides me with the address of his Kinjan Centre in Dudley Somehow I dont think it will be forthcoming.
He's postig on this thread for those that are interested http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/generalb... Nich Edited 18 Jan 07, 3:45 PM by Black_Saddler | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 4:20 PM silversub1947 UK, 5 yrs |
Yeah! This time the light at the end of the tunnel wasn't a train | ||
| 18 Jan 07, 5:37 PM ThedaVamp UK, 6 yrs |
Jaysus! Everytime I read a memo like that I always think I need to go more elaborate. Apparently submissives only respond to florid language.
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| 18 Jan 07, 6:41 PM stella_40 6 yrs |
I've read this through a few times, and it doesn't appeal to me. The first question I look to answer when a Dominant approaches me is 'why', and the second is to try and work out and establish what they're into and what they're hoping to gain and achieve through interacting or meeting with me. This is supposed to come from a life-long Dom (his own words) but the language is more abstract, less concrete, and rather vague. Most Dominants who've approached me have made it pretty clear in their correspondence what they are looking for and what they expect. Therefore there's numerous possibilities. (1) He might be a life-long Dom, but one with very little experience of interaction and play. (2) He might have a hidden agenda. (3) He might not know what he wants, or what he's looking for. (4) English might not be his native language. (5) He might be writing a load of BS. (6) He might be trying to make an impression. That's my overall impression. Being normal isn't a virtue, but indicates a lack of courage. |
