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When you bruise and mark far too easily... (30)

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8 Jan 07, 12:53 AM
MistressNikki
UK(SE), 9 yrs
Minxette wrote:
It's been suggested that my body will toughen up and bruise less in time, though I'm not totally convinced, especially at the fairly ripe age of 45.

Does anyone else have this problem? And, any suggestions for prevention or speedier cure… other than just to give up altogether?

As you are "older" you body isn't going to toughen up more unfortunately...

However, not only applying arnica, but taking Arnica Tablets works, and also upping the amount of Vitamin C in your diet. Easily breaking capileries indicates lack of Vit C, as Vit C is directly related to Capilery strengh. (Not that I can spell capilery!) If you smoke, Vit C deficiency *is* an issue. Take a 1000mg one-a-day fizzy tab.

Also, Ice, Witch Hazel, and/or Aloe Vera applied directly after play.

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8 Jan 07, 7:41 AM
erotica
UK(NG), 8 yrs

Not to be a party pooper - but to echo Misress Nikki, you could have a metabolic deficiency or even a small clotting defect. Without getting technical, the next time you have a NON BDSM bruise that doesn't go away, it might just be worth pointing it out to your doctor if he or she is caring and understanding - it might be a sign of an actual problem that needs to be sorted out!

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8 Jan 07, 5:20 PM
Mr_Magpie
UK, 10 yrs

erotica wrote:
Not to be a party pooper - but to echo Misress Nikki, you could have a metabolic deficiency or even a small clotting defect. Without getting technical, the next time you have a NON BDSM bruise that doesn't go away, it might just be worth pointing it out to your doctor if he or she is caring and understanding - it might be a sign of an actual problem that needs to be sorted out!

Mistress Erotica

Or even a BDSM bruise, if you trust your GP's confidentiality rating. You should be able to say to him/her "I do this and this is the result, have I got a physiological problem" and have them give you a polite informed opinion.

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26 Mar 09, 2:34 PM
MistressGI
UK(BH), 6 yrs
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Have you tried a long warm up, getting the skin nice and pink and warm before doing anything that might leave you with marks and bruises. Also covering the area with a wet tea towel, or I have heard cling film works as well. This does defeat the object of wearing your marks with pride though.

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26 Mar 09, 7:05 PM
Bristol_Munch
UK(BS), 3 yrs
Well you certainly didn't give me the benefit of a warm up Mistress GI back in December. Still you resisted the temptation to cover me in cling film (he he)!

Munchie 8-)

MistressGI wrote:
Have you tried a long warm up, getting the skin nice and pink and warm before doing anything that might leave you with marks and bruises. Also covering the area with a wet tea towel, or I have heard cling film works as well. This does defeat the object of wearing your marks with pride though.

26 Mar 09, 7:08 PM
lily_phoenix
UK(DE), 5 yrs

I wish I bruised more easily, to be honest. My friends know my kinks, mostly, so they're not surprised if I have bruises - and my larping can be quite the damaging sport if I fall over wrong.

But I take a lot of damage to bruise - and not through long practice, either :(

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26 Mar 09, 8:19 PM
simplicity
UK(TN), 6 yrs
Sukebe wrote:
Well, gotta say, I think that bruises and marks are very pretty, so don't waste a good thing :)

I have to agree with this... and it's lovely to see the marks change colour, then slowly fade...

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26 Mar 09, 8:23 PM
night_porter
UK(G), 4 yrs

whosthatgirl wrote:
When you bruise and mark far too easily...

It can be a bit of a pain (not just literally either :-D), but I'm guessing there's not really much I can do about it, other than deal with it after the event (arnica etc).

I've always found that it doesn't take much to bruise me (being a clumsy so and so I'm always walking into things), but now I've started to explore the bdsm scene a little, it seems that although I've got a reasonable pain threshold, some things that I enjoy like spanking, that don't even cause too much pain leave quite significant bruises and marks that take a while to heal. Worse, some take a few days to come out, so I can easily forget what could have caused those small bruises halfway down my arm that I don't even know that I have… until my boss or a work colleague points them out and looks at me quizzically :-o.

It's been suggested that my body will toughen up and bruise less in time, though I'm not totally convinced, especially at the fairly ripe age of 45.

Does anyone else have this problem? And, any suggestions for prevention or speedier cure… other than just to give up altogether?

Bizarrely the people here...

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/230560/

have the opposite complaint!

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27 Mar 09, 6:57 AM
Illuminated
UK, 3 yrs
I've found I don't bruise at all easily but the slightest cut or scratch lingers for ages and even the most innocuous fingernail dragging moment can leave surprisingly long lasting marks.

I've got two parallel tracks on my back that I don't remember recieving especially and that simply refuse to fade, looking back, I do remember her scratching me, but it didn't hurt or bleed and yet...there they still are, months and months after!

29 Mar 09, 9:11 PM
Shamanic_hunt_ion
UK, 4 yrs

I bruise easily...think mine is related to a blood clotting issue, however only happens when I have the little pink pinpricks as an indicator on my arms, which I have been told, blood tests will only show the problem when these marks are at their pinkest....*try timing a trip to the doc to get that checked!*

Anyway...if you don't have an issue, vitamin C can also help...

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