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waggle
Posted by waggle on Mon 1 Jan 07, 11:08 PM

Ok i did rant a few weeks ago as to my bad run of luck in 2006.To bring people up to date i lost a friend in august then 2 months to the date my nan past away,then a good friends mother past lost her struggle with cancer late november.So with only barely 36 hours left within 2006 i recieved a call to say that my grandad had gone into hospital and he was comfortable.My mum and myself decided to go see him as is only natural,fully expecting the usual disgruntled greeting of "what are you doing here?".Was a bit of a shock to see my grandad as he was definetly gravely ill,we were pulled aside by the nurse and a doctor to be told in the best way they could that they didn't expect him to last the day.We stayed for a little while but in truth we couldn't stay and watch a loved one past away,i don't care what anyone says it's the way we dealt with his passing.People will think we were cruel and heartless and we ran away,fine by me make all the assumptions they wish.My grandad past away last night at around 6.40pm .So all in all for me 2006 sucked!I look forward to 2007 totally not sucking at all

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1 Jan 07, 11:31 PM
BadAttitude
UK, 3 yrs
It's a difficult choice.
Personally I wouldn't want loved ones around when I popped my clogs.
And I wouldn't want them to be upset: Death is part of life.

1 Jan 07, 11:38 PM
Call_Me_Harmony
UK(LE), 2 yrs

Try not to be too hard on yourself. You did what was right for you and your mum. A hard choice but one you needed to make.
Harmony
Be the change you wish to see in the world.
Peace is contagious let it start with me.
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1 Jan 07, 11:50 PM
BlueVelvet
UK, 5 yrs
Thinking of you hon'.
You know where we are should you need anything, even if it's screaming at the moon....we do a good line in that!
*hugs*
BV
That's S and M...not M and S...they just make really BIG pants! *Wink*

2 Jan 07, 10:22 AM
GKs_property
3 yrs JUST HUGS
saff x

2 Jan 07, 4:28 PM
Elohims_jay
UK(B), 4 yrs
Y!
Cruel and heartless would never describe you babe.
:: HUGGLES ::
You know where we are if you need us .. and yes that does extend to unlimited time with Himself, PS2 and assorted games :: smiles ::
Love ya
J
xxxxxxxx
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2 Jan 07, 4:46 PM
XxDark_SerenityxX
2 yrs waggs my replies i have shared with you personally...but as i said W/we are here for you and please call on us even just for a rant.
love n stuff pups
"Intimacy is based on shared vulnerability...nothing deepens intimacy like the experiences that we share when we feel flayed, with our skins off, scared and vulnerable, and our partner is there with us, willing to share in the scary stuff"
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2 Jan 07, 7:02 PM
DevilRob
UK, 3 yrs
There's always a shoulder for you to lean on here as well my friend.
'Fast is fine but accuracy is forever"~Wyatt Earp

2 Jan 07, 8:24 PM
flirtycrazykinky
UK(SK), 5 yrs

Death is an emotion no one else can feel, Love is a memory no one can ever steal!
What can I say except my heart feels for you . I am sending you virtual "HUGS" and I will give you a huge squeeze when I see you again . Let 2007 be all that YOU make it!!
Death ends a life not a relationship.
your decision allowed you to remember him alive , let him know you were there and loved him and aloud him to pass gently. You did what was best for you....NO ONE has the right to judge you on how you handle your own emotions .
sending LOVE ! holly & Daddi Lee
submission is permission to truly be yourself without judgment

2 Jan 07, 8:49 PM
dawnsubby
UK, 3 yrs
Y!

DevilRob wrote:
There's always a shoulder for you to lean on here as well my friend.
and here too Wag's xx

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3 Jan 07, 11:48 AM
beautiful_nightmare
UK, 3 yrs
Y!

saffie74 wrote:
JUST HUGS
and i'll send the JUST KISSES
xxx
*Within you, I lose myself; Without you, I've found myself, yet i'm searching to be lost again*

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