Posted by purza_16 on Sun 31 Dec 06, 12:22 PM to purza_16's blog.
Apparently my estranged husband is now officially my ex
He has had his divorce papers through, mine haven't arrived yet but it doesn't matter....
I know this means I can start the new year with a clean slate yadda yadda....
Feel rather crappy, brings all the emotions back to mind again, proof that I failed....
This now leaves them open to get engaged, I wish them all the best for the future...no really I do.....
hugsss to anyone who needs or wants one
purza{A} xxx
ps I think he has a wedding cake fetish...lol she will be his third wife...
Edited Sun 31 Dec 06, 12:33 PM by purza_16
| 31 Dec 06, 12:26 PM tigerlili UK(WN), 7 yrs  |
YOU didn't fail hun...the relationship did! Have a huge hug from me and I look forward to seeing you next year. xxx The only ones who fail are those who do not try. | |
| 31 Dec 06, 12:31 PM loverofmatureDommes 5 yrs  |
Never mind you will pick up the pieces and hopefully meet someone else in time,obviously if that is what you want ofcourse.Please let me wish you all the best,yes my very best wishes to you from William.P.S.Also i know it is a really difficult time for you,but let me wish you a very happy new year. I am the one and only true serious slave. Edited 31 Dec 06, 1:59 PM by loverofmatureDommes | |
| 31 Dec 06, 1:15 PM Call_Me_Harmony UK(CB), 5 yrs |
There is something about those papers that just sinks a final nail into the failure wether we are at fault or not. Take some time to grieve what might have been then have a Wonderful New Year. Harmony | |
| 31 Dec 06, 1:37 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs  |
He's not called Ross is he? Furry on the outside, Fluffy on the inside. | |
| 31 Dec 06, 1:50 PM River_Deep UK, 6 yrs |
Oh no no no. My papers were just another way to show I had succeeded in being the strong person and gaining the life I wanted without him. D xx | |
| 31 Dec 06, 3:29 PM Nina951 UK(BL), 8 yrs |
Accepting your emotions and grieving the relationship is good to be able to move on but don't feel that you failed. You can't 'make' a relationship work, it's a two way process. Now the hard work is to try not to show any hostility towards him to the kids (tough when they fail yet again to turn up on time) and let them make their own decisions about him. Which they will as they get fed up of being attendants for him yet again at wedding number 4, 5, 6... Hugs to you to and hope you have a great New Year followed by a wonderful 2007. Nina xx Love who you are (and yes, it's my bum again) |
