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Posted by domspaintoy on Sun 10 Dec 06, 9:40 PM

A friend will be with you through-out your life, the people whom i call my friends are people who have been a part of my life for many years and know me, my character, my personality, my little quirks and whims, my mardy arse moods, my unstinting loyalty, my dry wit and open heart, just as i know them all.

My friends and i, we have seen each other through all the major events in our lives, the first time we all got pissed, the first time we got laid, the first holiday we had, the first time we got engaged, the weddings, to being there when we gave birth, to the horror stories that followed, the broken hearts we helped to mend when our 'first' loves dumped us on our arses, the divorces that followed, to the fights and screaming matches we had, to holding each others hands when we had our disasters, the rapes and beatings 2 of us endured, to the time i was so ill i almost died and they all did their bit, holding each other tight when grief overtook us, babies, sons & daughters, mothers, brothers and grandparents have been wept over for the injustice of untimely deaths, everyone of us has felt that cold grip grab us, we have all rallied round each other.

We have laughed with and at each other, we have cried, shouted, screamed, stomped, thrown ourselves around and still we remained firm and solid in our friendships. We walk into each others homes like they are our own and we all know the doors will never be locked. We have gone weeks and even months without seeing each other because circumstances dictate but still if one of us cries out the others are there, we drop everything when we are needed. The thanks are always there but rarely need to be said, although always recieved with warm hearts and generous smiles.

My friends are as important today as ever, my oldest friend is 40 5 days before me, we have bounced in and out of each others lifes for 36 years and she above any of my friends is the one who has suffered the most heartbreak and hardship and yet she is one of the strongest women ive ever known. The admiration i have for all my friends is unlimited but for her it knows no bounds, she is special, they are all special but she shines brightest.

I have friends i am in the process of making, new friends who will join the gaggle i already have. They, as i am are learning about all our little ways, we are all learning we can laugh, shout, stomp, and cry without it threatening the blossoming relationship. i look forward to the gossip, the laughter, the tears and the hard times i will share with them as i do with my other friends.

Then there are the people who i have known but didnt stay long, the acquaintances, the passers by, the silouhettes that have glanced through my life, the people who i didnt want to know or need, the people who didnt want or need me and i wonder at them for a moment. Then i realise and appreciate what i have already.

So its a strange world when someone called you a friend but then dismisses you out of hand for some perceived wrong doing, thats when you realise they were never important in the first place and you didnt need them or them you and you were right not to allow them into your life.

In this life you love, you laugh, you enjoy, you have pleasure and you give pleasure, you feel envy and jealousy, you despair, you torment yourself, you cry and you wail but if you are lucky you will always have friends, if you are extra lucky you will have friends like i have, very special people who are worth my laughter, my joy, my love and at times my tears, my anger and my wrath, and why? because they are my Friends! they dont hold anything against me.

But, it made me think for a while so i got something out of it.

Im lucky, (ive at times) thought i was unlucky, but when i think about my friends, or my children and family or my old relationships and even my new and blossoming relationship i appreciate just how bloody lucky i am. i have a wealth that knows no bounds around me and i am one very lucky bitch!

My friends make me rich, my loves make me wealthy. There is no point if that point is missed.

Ramble over. XXX

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10 Dec 06, 10:59 PM
dizziblonde
UK, 5 yrs

i have a friend over the past 5 years we have been to hell and back, stood by each other through thick and thin, we don't really see much of each other now but we both know that if we ever needed anything the other would be there like a shot thats true friendship x
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