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| 9 Dec 06, 11:25 PM strictlynormal UK(HD), 6 yrs   |
No advice from here either on what play is or isn't possible I'm afraid, just a big CONGRATS to you both  Hope it all goes really, really well! Best wishes SN & se ================================== | |
| 10 Dec 06, 8:18 AM pinkreindeer UK(L), 7 yrs |
We played while I was pregnant....and one important bit of advice about bondage is to make sure you can get her out of it easily when she needs to go to the loo 18 times a hour! Other than that...we stuck to mainly sensation play and some gentle impact. Pinkxxx A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. | |
| 10 Dec 06, 9:12 AM hunny_Beez 8 yrs |
First of all CONGRATULATIONS. I went through three pregnancies while in a BDSM relationship. I enjoyed light bondage. My favourite was cling film. My stomach would not be wrapped and I would not be wrapped tightly like when I was not pregnant. My legs and bottom would be covered going under my belly. Then my arm would be crossed over my boob and wrapped, again not tightly. I enjoyed the feeling of support this gave my boobs. Then once wrapped we would do sensation play, lots of strokes and teasing. As I was only partially enclosed in cling film over heating was not so much of a problem as when mummified but you still need to be careful. I also enjoyed a light flogging over my shoulders, it helped to relax me. It was done with a very soft and light flogger and done gently.
You partner knows her body listen to her and just enjoy these wonderful months together. If you do nothing but lay together on a bed and wait for the kicks until the baby is born then that is just fine also. Just enjoy this time and remember once its out there will be no time for any sex at all. hunnyB *** BDSM Our Way. Stories, Poetry and more. Free BDSM style Cards to print off. www.dsculture.com *** | |
| 10 Dec 06, 3:06 PM sartori UK(B), 7 yrs |
I was also still active on the scene out and about literally till i gave birth with my last little fella who is now 18 months old and happy little active chappie..For those who know me know this to be true as i was still naked out in the club scaring people...lol..For me personally, things i found, was standing and being upright for play could cause issue at times, feelings of nausea or faintness..Electrics is a definite out till the baby was born (wasnt happy on that one..grrrr)..also a lot of the equipment like kneelers where the subbies head is downwards would give me chronic heartburn, not the nicest thing when Your being played on, kinda destracting...nipples can get very sensitive later on and lactation can occur before the baby is born though that in itself can be a whole new fun game..*blushes and laughs*..Impact wise i carried on as always, just not on my tummy, or anything that was giving me irritation at that time, a lot comes down to communication..
Later on as she gets into the 3rd trimester she may find that if/when she orgasms that she may feel her tummy go hard afterwards for a little while.....not sure what else i could advise to You on here, but anything You/she wish to ask i am more than happy to answer in memo...Congrats to You both and enjoy..*s* Dont live Your life faster than Your guardian angel can fly...*S* | |
| 10 Dec 06, 6:20 PM Tweedydaddy 5 yrs |
We just calmed things down a bit when we were pregnant. lots of spanking and bondage, but not much powerful impact stuff. Lady love's nipples were like detonators, this was fun some times, but I had to tread very carefully. I don't know the facts, but I was advised that coming in her mouth was out of order as the hormones in semen can be dodgy. We spent most of our time in endless car picnics on Southport beach and went every day. Tip, for nausea try ginger nut biscuits, they work.
Congratulations and the very best of luck to you three. Silence! When I want your opinion, I'll thrash it out of you! Sir Henry at Rawlinson End by Vivian Stanshall. | |
| 10 Dec 06, 6:38 PM Charless UK(WC), 11 yrs |
Firstly congratulations to both of you. Secondly, another little problem is brought to mind by the quote above: when the time for birth nears, be very careful forcing too many orgasms on her, particularly of the OMG kind that bdsm tends to produce fairly readily, since orgasm can induce (premature) labour. When our first child was overdue and happy mum did not want to have her induced mechanically by breaking her waters, the midwife gave us a filthy look and asked 'How many orgasms do you think you can have tonight?'. We cannot remember the answer because our number one was born the following day! Oh and I confirm that little nippers are the best contraceptive ever invented: they don't just prevent the woman from getting pregnant, they actually prevent her getting sex. Edited 10 Dec 06, 6:40 PM by Charless | |
| 10 Dec 06, 6:42 PM Lady_Satigny CH, 6 yrs |
Congratulations to you both, wot a exciting and magical experience for you. Its so lovely to see other couples in the scene that obviously love eachother very much. We were not in the scene when i was preggie, but i have you warn u, i was a horny little rabbit!!! So watch out. Unfortunately i can not advise you on playing while your growing. I did come across some maternity corsets once, poo, can't think where they were. If you are concerned about playing with your lovely wife while she is growing, SWITCH, that way you are both happy and if she is anything like me, then she can just use and abuse u. The only advise i can give, enjoy enjoy enjoy, it is a magical time, feeling and seeing your wife grow. Good Luck to you both xxx
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" | |
| 11 Dec 06, 6:40 AM Litany UK(E), 11 yrs |
I cant see how pregnancy would stop you being able to use blindfolds and pinwheels and other such 'drag items', maybe not on the breasts, but shoulders, backs and arms shouldn't be a problem (would sterilise them first but you will have the Milton in no doubt already). Gags, try some of the bit gags, this way thay wont restrict airflow, Cuffs to the bed, again the sensation of play, just moderation. Right, now I think Litany is a good name for the kid, no matter what make it is, but like everyone is saying, awwwwwwww...congratulation`s Litany "Litany, a poncy show-off with wit, a camera, and his own teeth *swoon*" | |
| 11 Dec 06, 8:01 AM sartori UK(B), 7 yrs |
"Pinwheels, gags"...nope ...never stopped me playing that way..in fact i was still happily being whipped with the singletail at 8 months and loving the extra adrenaline rush *grins*...the funniest reaction was the sound at that time would make the little fella inside me squirm about like he loved it also, not destressed thrashing about, more a slow roll and squirm about, kinda like his momma was doing...lol....All my advice would be is to enjoy the pregnancy and remember Your pregnant and not sick...take care where care is needed and seek advice when unsure but Youcan still play and enjoy Yourself, just need to adapt as Your body changes and listen to Yourself when You feel something isnt right or need to rest....Have fun and a wonderful xmas as from now on they will all be more frantic *S* Dont live Your life faster than Your guardian angel can fly...*S* | |
| 11 Dec 06, 8:34 AM sartori UK(B), 7 yrs |
Something else that just came to me....if She is going to have a natural birth then a tens is a wonderful destraction at the time, personally i would buy one as You never know when the birth will actually happen so hiring can be a little tricky, plus then You have the added bonus of another toy for the toybag afterwards *grins*...cant we just pervert anything lol... Dont live Your life faster than Your guardian angel can fly...*S* |
