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IC : Weblogs : wild_one : "The Black Rose Event - Washington DC"

The Black Rose Event - Washington DC (3)

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Posted by wild_one on Wed 6 Dec 06, 6:33 PM

So, the Black Rose weekend… I'll link from this main scene report to other areas when there are sections I want to elaborate on, otherwise this would likely take far too long and people wouldn't bother to read it all. One link in particular will have an advisory; if you have a weak stomach I'd skip the medical play link!

Friday, I arrived at the hotel with Brad, my friend from Maryland who I spoke about in my Crucible club write up. This event was a little different, as I didn't have to clear play partners with Brad. We checked into the hotel, and then into the event, I had a number of people I'd been talking to before I flew over on the attendees' area of the site and between filling in forms and deciding if I would allow pictures to be taken (I did but I don't think any were) I tried to spot people, with no luck.

We went for a look around the vending area and I saw an absolutely stunning collar; it's red and black and really showy, not practical as collars go but gorgeous, and $189! I took a card, and asked if they would ship overseas, they do, I resolved to save up! As we walked around Brad went off to look at some suspension cuffs and suddenly I heard my name, turning round I saw Jazz who I had been talking to on the BR chatroom. We talked for a bit, with varying degrees of shyness, he told me about a shrews fiddle he made, part of it closes around the neck and the arms are both held out in front, one behind the other, I saw it in use later on and it looked really good.

After the vending and a class on knife play it was time for some meet n greets, I went to the TNG (the next generation – 18-35's) and then leaving there early I went off to the pony play meet n greet, there were a few ponies tacked up and being put through their paces and I just kinda stood in the background against a wall and watched, wanting to be a pony.. after a while there was a stampede organised, I was handed a pony and quite unsure what to do I petted her and then walked her around a little, then handed her back. A little later on I was handed the same pony back again and feeling a little more confident I petted her some more and scratched her head.

After going for dinner with Claire and Brad I went to have a look round the dungeon, my attention was immediately drawn by a clown (later I'd discover this was fifthangel) beating a girl with a rubber chicken! Then I looked at the other side of the cross and saw Jim (more on him later) and Leah, he was punching her on the flat of her chest, between her breasts and shoulders, I bit my lip a little as I watched, I had been talking about playing with this guy, the energy between the two of them was intense, I walked off again, it was difficult to process everything, the clown was just strange, there was a guy close by obviously not happy with the punching and my head was in turmoil, there was also a class on electric play at 9am I wanted to go to, I returned to the cross just before I left, as the scene ended and they held each other, he caught my eye and I felt myself blush, I have no idea why, I made my way back up to the room I shared with Brad and Claire and slept soundly.

The electric play class was good, and included some fire play sparked off by the wands as well as stun guns and cattle prods.. there was an opportunity to try them out afterwards, I declined! After that class I went for a discussion on edge play, that was very interesting, lots of thoughts and ideas batted around, edge play is something that's been an interest of mine for a while, but as became obvious during the discussion, peoples definitions of edge play vary considerably. The main reason I went to the discussion was because Jim was leading it, I had seen Jim before this weekend, my last crucible visit I had watched him cut a dragonfly into Leah's thigh, and I had been talking with him through e-mail in the weeks leading up to this event… after the discussion finished I went off with Jim to talk, it was an interesting discussion… I would write more about it but I'm not going to…

Now we get to the interesting part.. the first night I spent in the dungeon. I will write about this in detail here I had a sensual single tail scene with Aryan, after which, disappointed I didn't have any marks I asked for another scene the next night as I wanted to take some marks home, I helped out during a sensory deprivation scene with a good friend of mine who I don't see nearly enough of, and also at a scene with some of Claries friends. It was during that scene that I was taken away by Jim, held up against a cross and teased and tortured with a knife.. but more of that in the extended report linked above!

I'm not sure now how exactly Saturday night ended, I did get given a really cool bracelet and earrings made out of recycled nails though, very spiky and dangerous *grin Sunday morning I had a class first thing on pony play, 'how to enjoy pony play without having to take out a second mortgage' then I went into a class that was half way through on pressure points.. the class was being given by fifthangel he's a real sadist, scary guy.. that link is just one I found online, however the 'creating a medical nightmare' that's talked about at the bottom of that page is another of the classes he gave, one that I went to after lunch.. that one I will talk about here please be advised, this link not for the weak stomached… it was a class the likes of which I have never seen before, and part of me would never like to see again (of course there is the other part of me that's just sick, twisted and depraved) so, enter at your own risk.

After the classes I went to talk to Jazz for a bit, I'd seen him in the dungeon on Saturday night tying someone else and my budding rope interest perked, we talked about doing a scene early in the night, soon after the dungeon opens but because I'd already spoken to Jim about doing a cutting scene which I expected to be pretty intense I didn't want anything too serious or mentally deep, and I also had that second single tail scene to do…

I spoke with Jim a little later about the cutting, what I wanted and where, I picked a rose because it just seemed right. While talking with Jim Brad came back to the room, we talked for a while and then I complimented him on his lovely pink bag, which I then found out was a Christmas present for me.. I opened the bag and there was the collar I had been admiring all weekend! It was beautiful, and now I realise that I've got all my times mixed up because I was wearing the collar when I went to the medical play class so all this must have happened earlier.. not that that is important in the grand scheme of this write up…

After more discussions with Jim (and an introduction to the Hitachi magic wand which frankly is frightening!) I made my way down to the dungeon to meet up with Jazz and a pile of rope! Had a fun scene which included things like, 'can you get up if I tie you like this and lay you down?' I'm glad we spoke about the cutting scene and not getting too deep in this one as I found myself worrying constantly about the time, especially because my sense of time disappears during play and had it been a more intense scene that would have really ruined it. I would like to play with Jazz again when I don't have something else intruding so much on my mind. Anyhow, I then went for the cutting, which is explained in detail here and then immediately went for the single tail scene, which I will also go into more in the above link.

After those scenes I was probably in shock, thankfully Jim was still around, I'm not sure if he had a feeling I might need someone after the whip scene and stuck around or if I was just lucky he had got talking to someone, but either way it was a godsend that he was there… he was also talking with LJ and Claire was not far away so I was surrounded by people I knew and all of them helped me as my body and mind tried to come to terms with what they have been through.

We stayed in the dungeon till moments before it closed, the weekend had moved swiftly up in intensity and that final night was more than I had ever… it was … there are no words…

My flight the next morning was cancelled, I was crashing in a fairly big way, I said my goodbyes to Jim, I wanted to say more but didn't know what, I had bison steak for lunch at the train station and then said goodbye to Brad and Claire, the journey home was strange, I didn't have time to process anything much because I had to think about flights, trains etc. the turbulence on the international flight was the most intense I have experienced, the plane would drop and there would be a second of weightlessness, then the roar of the engines as the plane lifted back to altitude, more bumps then a drop again, it was strangely calming, I fell asleep during it. Thankfully and how this happened I have no idea, but the plane was packed, except for my row of 3 seats, which I had entirely to myself, I could lie down and sleep, I travelled better than those in first class.

Edited Wed 6 Dec 06, 6:43 PM by wild_one

Replies

6 Dec 06, 11:16 PM
Divatje
UK(W), 8 yrs 
I can highly recommend the BR ....

Diva
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15 Dec 06, 7:46 AM
erotica
UK, 5 yrs 
I'm so glad you found a play event over there. I was in the states for 21/2 weeks in November and in spite of looking on several sites couldn't find anything in the areas I was in (Nashville, DC and Delaware) in the time I was there. I did go to one little club in Nashville which was the only gay/lesbian/fetish club in town. Sounds like you had a GREAT time. Must look up that weekend next time I'm out visiting friends.

Rotti

If life were made of moments then you'd never know you had one.

15 Dec 06, 5:18 PM
wild_one
UK, 2 yrs 
The BR weekend is a yearly event, they also have 'Camp Crucible' which is a 5 day long summer camp, now that sounds like fantastic fun but I think at the moment it might be just too much fun for me! I need to keep focussed on Uni and it was hard enough to come back after this weekend..

BR has classes each week and a BR night at the crucible in DC once a month.

 
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