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| 13 Jan 08, 1:06 PM MisterBear UK(WA), 8 yrs |
You can try http://www.thebeatentrack.net/
Edited 13 Jan 08, 1:22 PM by MisterBear | |
| 13 Jan 08, 1:31 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
There isn't a gap in your local area for a website, that no one would visit anyway. There is the East Anglia BDSM website. Science, the only religion that works even if you don't believe in it. | |
| 18 Aug 08, 1:19 AM MadamNoMerci UK, 3 yrs |
Hello,
Theres some new sites out there growing daily guess it depends on what you are looking for. There's a brand new site www.subsfordommes.com thats just opened about two months ago, free and all femdom with blogs, chats, profiles etc...its totally dedicated to bdsm and female dominance. Which for me is pretty cool | |
| 18 Aug 08, 1:30 AM yoda_dog UK(HP), 6 yrs |
http://www.fetlife.com is a good networking site "Aw, that's sweet...you think your opinion matters...." | |
| 18 Aug 08, 2:59 AM FetishJess UK(BN), 5 yrs |
I've just joined it. Looks quite Facebook like at the moment. www.fetiqueuk.com www.brightonfab.com http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhKU-tmSQR8 | |
| 24 Nov 09, 11:27 AM DaddySpanksSluts UK(TQ), 3 yrs |
I've tried many BDSM sites over the years and have been on Alt.com for around 9 of them, had a lot of success there but now find that Fetlife.com is the best by far as there are no chatrooms so the "instant gratification" crowd out for a quick, kinky fix stay away...Fetlife is great for localised (wherever you are) events and the majority of people are very genuine as opposed to most on Alt.... Edited 24 Nov 09, 11:28 AM by DaddySpanksSluts | |
| 24 Nov 09, 12:10 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
Fetlife is shit. It is so hard to find anything and the groups system fragments things to a huge number of groups with no traffic. I can find at least 12 groups relevant to Scotland, there are probably more. Fuck knows how many groups there are which are relevant to Britain. Even the busiest groups get very little traffic. The British Connection, which may be the biggest Britain specific group, I have no way of telling the search is so pathetic, has had 13 new topics started in the last week and of them 8 were about events. The oldest comment on the first page of it, number 15, was made four days ago, on here number 15 was commented on 90 minutes ago. When it comes to people they are just as genuine and dodgy as they are on here. What you can't tell is whether they are looking or not, or even if they have signed in within the last year. I look upon Fetlife as being the Voyage of the Banned. The UK people who post a lot tend to be amongst those who have been given the heave ho from here. Science, the only religion that works even if you don't believe in it. | |
| 24 Nov 09, 12:41 PM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs |
I went and had a look at these sites and the results were: Slave Register: still going strong kinkdup: not going at all mydungeonspace: still going, some activity thebeatentrack: not going at all mybdsm: still going, no posts since October 2008, so would appear to be in a coma waiting for life support to be switched off. Science, the only religion that works even if you don't believe in it. | |
| 24 Nov 09, 2:03 PM Hedwig UK(E), 4 yrs |
http://ranai.wordpress.com/bdsm-fetish-internati... There should be at least some places that you find interesting. http://moreinches.wordpress.com | |
| 24 Nov 09, 9:18 PM othyim NL, 3 yrs |
Alt com sucks... unless you have a craving for avatars picturing the male anatomy... mainly kink and swingers IMO.
Collarme...
Apart from the "kneel bitch" crap?
Fakers and HNG paradise.
But when you whead out all the crap... there are indeed some VERY genuine, yet mostly rather inexperienced guys there.
What can I say.. I met two Brit guys from there and my (not Brit) SO.. Fetlife.... I used to like it... happy chaos and following threads your friends posted in. Till I found out december 2008 there were pedo's hidden there. That, after a few of us mailed JB about that, WERENT banned. Only their postings on the subject were removed... The group structure there sucks big time. For it lacks general moderation. I knew they would be able to regroup. So the pedo thingie kind of drew the line, for me. I deleted everything there. Bondage.com. Yep, very Amercain based. Soooo not European. Yet a very friendly place with a wealth of knowlegde! I like it.... and it was the first international site I discovered... I kinda grew up there. Just my observations... I tend to show most of me at 2 invite-only sites... one international and one in the Dutch language for Flemish and Dutch people? This place feels kind of safe... sort of an apprentice site, lol? |